The One Inside: An Internal Family Systems (IFS) podcast

The Courage to Start with the Ending - with Keith Miller and Courtney Corona

Feb 13, 2026

Courtney Corona, journalist and podcaster who tells candid stories about love and healing, and Keith Miller, licensed therapist and IFS consultant working with ketamine-assisted therapy, share their messy, brave relationship. They talk radical honesty, starting with the ending, dating app chaos, using IFS in conflict, grieving past lives while loving again, and how psychedelics helped unlock grief and reconnection.

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First Date Born From Radical Honesty

Courtney agreed to a date during a single 24-hour period on the apps and found Keith's radical honesty compelling.
That honesty launched a messy but healing relationship that neither expected.

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IFS As Four-Wheel Drive

Keith describes using IFS as a 'four-wheel drive' tool to shift when conversations get stuck.
Speaking for parts helped them deblend during conflict and build trust.

ANECDOTE

Co-Parenting With Respect

Courtney appreciates being part of an extended, cooperative family that centers the kids.
She prefers co-parenting involvement and values a loving environment around children.

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On today's episode I chat with Keith and Courtney, cohosts of the podcast Tripping Over Love. Keith is licensed therapist and a Level 3 IFS Consultant, and Courtney is journalist and podcaster. They joined me to share their beautiful, messy love story.

We dive into the courage it takes to start over, the "trauma" of the dating apps, and how they've used Internal Family Systems (IFS) and psychedelics to navigate the "breakups, breakdowns, and breakthroughs" of their relationship .

We discuss:

Starting relationships with truth instead of performance.
Radical transparency — "starting with the ending" — as a foundation for trust.
Why telling the truth early can save a relationship later.
Loving someone while still grieving a past life.
Speaking for parts instead of from them in moments of conflict.
Finding the courage to try again after loss and heartbreak.
Dating is messy: Getting honest about the "thrift store shopping" energy of dating apps.
The difference between loving someone and being "in love."
IFS as "four-wheel drive": Turning toward the model when relationships get stuck.
How psychedelic-assisted journeys helped unlock grief — and create space to love again.

Extended Interview

At the end of our chat, I asked them each for one piece of advice for couples. This extended interviews is available for paid subscribers over on The One Inside Substack.

Connect with Keith and Courtney:

Podcast: Tripping Over Love
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