Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

Teaching Our Kids Patience

Sep 27, 2022
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ANECDOTE

Listener Case: A Restless 16‑Month‑Old

  • A caregiver writes about a 16-month-old who struggles to sit 3–5 minutes in a high chair and 15–20 minutes in a car seat.
  • Janet responds that this behavior is within typical range and not a major concern at 16 months.
INSIGHT

Facilitate, Don't Lecture

  • Teaching traits like patience works best by facilitating development, not direct instruction.
  • Modeling matters more than telling because teaching can unintentionally show the opposite behaviour.
ADVICE

Model A Patient Mindset

  • Model patience by adopting a mindset of letting go and trusting rather than forcing outcomes.
  • Avoid overdoing strategies that may signal to children you lack patience yourself.
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