Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 562 - Polyamory in a Red State with Stacey McLarty
Jan 13, 2026
In this engaging discussion, Texas attorney Stacey McLarty shares her insights on navigating non-monogamy in conservative environments. She highlights the importance of inclusive legal representation for non-traditional families and warns about the risks of adultery claims in divorce cases. Stacey offers valuable practical legal tools, such as medical POAs and written agreements, to protect polyamorous relationships. She also shares how to find community in Texas and emphasizes the need for self-care among advocates working in hostile political landscapes.
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Defend Against Adultery Claims
- Educate lawyers and judges about consensual non-monogamy to prevent misuse of adultery claims in divorce.
- Assemble community witnesses and documentation to show consensual agreements if disputes arise.
Grow Community Through Presence
- Build local community via conferences, meetups, apps, and strong reputations in broader civic life.
- Show up for neighbors and allies to create social proof that reduces scrutiny and hostility.
Choose Practical Legal Workarounds
- Use legal forms like medical power of attorney and optional shared last names to reduce barriers in hospitals and public institutions.
- Choose practical, visible steps that lower everyday friction rather than expensive, complex solutions.