The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett The Divorce Expert: 86% of People Who Divorce Remarry! Why Sex Is Causing Divorces! If They Say This, Do Not Marry Them!
May 20, 2024
02:18:56
Divorce rates are dominant, but is there hope for a happily ever after?
James Sexton is America's top divorce lawyer, and bestselling author of romantic advice books 'How to Stay in Love' and 'If You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late'.
In this conversation, James and Steven discuss the number one reason for 99% of divorces, the link between sex and divorce, the glue that holds marriages together, and a ‘note hack’ that could save relationships.
00:00 Intro
01:01 I Am A Divorce Lawyer
01:37 How Many People Divorce
07:51 The Dynamics Between Gold Diggers And Millionaires
11:33 What's Prenups? And The Legalities Behind Marriage!
16:14 The Perfect Prenup
17:56 Disagreements Over Prenups
25:48 Are Prenups Legal?
27:34 The Most Shocking Prenup (Don't Get Fat)
28:59 Appearance As A Measure Of Love In A Relationship
31:33 Prenups With Fidelity & Cheating Clauses
36:30 Are Prenups On The Rise?
38:39 Are People Fake Happy?
43:18 Stop Comparing Your Relationships To Others
49:44 How To Prevent Divorce
54:25 "Happy Wife, Happy Life"
01:01:59 Is Sex The Biggest Cause Of Divorce?
01:06:53 Fixing The Marriage
01:08:36 Who Cheats More?
01:09:02 Who Wants More Sex?
01:12:05 Most Shocking Deceit
01:13:18 Why Husbands Like To Sleep With The Nannies
01:15:36 Killing To Get Out Of A Relationship
01:21:17 Have You Ever Cried?
01:23:29 Love And Loss
01:36:01 Seeing Relationships As Chapters
01:39:55 Have We Been Sold An Idyllic Lie?
01:43:34 Is Money The Biggest Cause Of Divorce?
01:47:59 Can You Hide Money?
01:49:16 You Are Liable For Debts
01:50:49 Winning The Lottery And Keeping Quiet
01:52:20 LGBT Rights & Divorces
01:58:19 Are Open Relationships The Answer?
02:01:00 Is Cheating Okay?
02:04:44 Should We Get Married?
02:12:14 Last Guest Question
You can purchase James’s book, ‘How to Stay in Love’, here: https://amzn.to/4dTzdzI
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James Sexton is America's top divorce lawyer, and bestselling author of romantic advice books 'How to Stay in Love' and 'If You're in My Office, It's Already Too Late'.
In this conversation, James and Steven discuss the number one reason for 99% of divorces, the link between sex and divorce, the glue that holds marriages together, and a ‘note hack’ that could save relationships.
00:00 Intro
01:01 I Am A Divorce Lawyer
01:37 How Many People Divorce
07:51 The Dynamics Between Gold Diggers And Millionaires
11:33 What's Prenups? And The Legalities Behind Marriage!
16:14 The Perfect Prenup
17:56 Disagreements Over Prenups
25:48 Are Prenups Legal?
27:34 The Most Shocking Prenup (Don't Get Fat)
28:59 Appearance As A Measure Of Love In A Relationship
31:33 Prenups With Fidelity & Cheating Clauses
36:30 Are Prenups On The Rise?
38:39 Are People Fake Happy?
43:18 Stop Comparing Your Relationships To Others
49:44 How To Prevent Divorce
54:25 "Happy Wife, Happy Life"
01:01:59 Is Sex The Biggest Cause Of Divorce?
01:06:53 Fixing The Marriage
01:08:36 Who Cheats More?
01:09:02 Who Wants More Sex?
01:12:05 Most Shocking Deceit
01:13:18 Why Husbands Like To Sleep With The Nannies
01:15:36 Killing To Get Out Of A Relationship
01:21:17 Have You Ever Cried?
01:23:29 Love And Loss
01:36:01 Seeing Relationships As Chapters
01:39:55 Have We Been Sold An Idyllic Lie?
01:43:34 Is Money The Biggest Cause Of Divorce?
01:47:59 Can You Hide Money?
01:49:16 You Are Liable For Debts
01:50:49 Winning The Lottery And Keeping Quiet
01:52:20 LGBT Rights & Divorces
01:58:19 Are Open Relationships The Answer?
02:01:00 Is Cheating Okay?
02:04:44 Should We Get Married?
02:12:14 Last Guest Question
You can purchase James’s book, ‘How to Stay in Love’, here: https://amzn.to/4dTzdzI
Follow James:
Instagram - https://bit.ly/4dFRX5v
Twitter - https://bit.ly/3wCXFV7
Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/3kxINCANKsb
My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://smarturl.it/DOACbook
Follow me:
https://beacons.ai/diaryofaceo
Shop the Conversation Cards: https://thediary.com/products/the-cards
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit theexperienceplus.substack.com