Women of Impact

How to Be More Likable and Impressive | Vanessa Van Edwards (Replay)

Feb 2, 2024
Vanessa Van Edwards, a behavioral investigator and national best-selling author, talks about setting boundaries, being more likable, and navigating social events. She shares tips for feeling less awkward, the power of sharing falls, and how to connect with people using 'hot buttons'. Vanessa also discusses the challenges and joys of becoming a parent, the impact of love languages on relationships, and the power of thoughtful gestures in social interactions.
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ADVICE

Reframe Anxiety As Excitement

  • Reframe anxiety as excitement to improve performance and enjoyment.
  • Saying "I'm excited" before a task leads to better outcomes than focusing on feeling anxious.
ANECDOTE

Embrace Vulnerability Socially

  • Vanessa posted a photo of herself face-planting while surfing and it received more likes than a polished photo.
  • Showing vulnerability instead of perfection increases relatability and audience engagement.
INSIGHT

Popularity Is About Liking

  • Popular kids like more people rather than just being liked themselves.
  • Liking many people initiates likability and social connection more effectively.
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