Savage Lovecast Savage Lovecast Episode 983
Sep 2, 2025
A daughter grapples with her elderly father's online scam situation—should he go to the police or seek counseling? A youthful gay man wrestles with feeling uncomfortable in the dating scene due to his boyish looks. A concerned mother seeks advice on guiding her teens toward ethical porn, with expert Erika Lust lending her insights on porn consumption. Finally, a provocative discussion unfolds over whether having visible come on one's face constitutes a consent violation. Get ready for a blend of humor, advice, and edgy topics!
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Lock Down Accounts Immediately
- Verify whether your dad shared passwords and then change account numbers and credentials to stop further theft.
- Protect remaining assets proactively rather than assuming funds can be recovered.
Limit Counseling To Practical Repair
- Consider a short counseling session to process anger, shame, and betrayal and to facilitate an apology.
- Avoid lengthy couples therapy at advanced age; prioritize brief repair and closure.
Test For Serious STIs, Not Routine HSV
- Prioritize testing and screening for treatable STIs like gonorrhea, chlamydia, and syphilis rather than routine HSV testing.
- If you attend play parties or have multiple partners, accept realistic HSV exposure risk and adopt practical prevention like suppression or DoxyPEP where appropriate.
