Sex for Saints Episode 386 - Blending Your Erotic Minds: How Novelty and Intimacy Keep Marriage Hot an Interview with Katie Runyan
Sep 12, 2025
Katie Runyon, creator of Faithful Fling, is back to share her insights on keeping long-term marriages passionate. She discusses how role-play can infuse novelty and deep emotional intimacy, breaking routines that lead to stagnation. Katie reveals surprising demographics embracing these flings and explains how preparation can heighten trust and tension. She emphasizes the importance of play and curiosity in rediscovering each other, offering over 50 creative ideas to spice up monogamy. Get ready for inspiration to reignite the flames!
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Playfulness Is Gender-Neutral
- Role play interest is split roughly 50/50 between husbands and wives, busting gender assumptions.
- Playfulness is rising as couples seek creative ways to escape seriousness and routine.
Use Prepared Scenarios And Separate Accounts
- Use Faithful Fling's 'flings' which include story-style scenarios, character ideas, outfits, and dialogue.
- Create separate accounts so each partner sees only their role to preserve surprise and adapt comfort levels.
Plan Together, Prioritize Connection
- Plan role play dates together, discuss boundaries, and treat the prep like a flirty game plan.
- Focus on connection, not perfection, and let prep build sexual tension.