Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

553 - What Can Swingers and Polyamorists Learn From Each Other? With Mr. and Mrs. Jones of the We Gotta Thing Podcast

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Oct 28, 2025
Join Mr. and Mrs. Jones, co-hosts of the We Gotta Thing podcast and experienced social swingers, as they unpack the intricacies of non-monogamy. They discuss the stigma around the term 'swinger' and how it's evolving. Delving into the emotional complexities of swinging versus polyamory, they highlight the importance of community and consent. Listeners will learn about New Relationship Energy and practical strategies for navigating it, as well as the positive impact non-monogamous practices can have on primary relationships.
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ADVICE

Join Community To Learn And Normalize

  • Seek community groups (gendered or interest-based) to learn, share, and avoid shame while exploring non-monogamy.
  • Mr. Jones recommends regular guy/ladies groups to normalize questions and vulnerability.
INSIGHT

Life Stage Colors Non-Monogamy Choices

  • Season of life shapes how much community and non-monogamy people can maintain (kids, time, travel).
  • Younger generations appear more open-minded about relationship structures.
ADVICE

Start With A Practical Polyamory Definition

  • Define polyamory broadly as maintaining more than one concurrent romantic and/or sexual relationship.
  • Use that definition as a starting point, then tailor to individual configurations and agreements.
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