
The Leader's Journey Podcast How to Ask a Question
Mar 28, 2026
They explore how the phrasing, tone, and timing of questions shape responses and relationships. The difference between genuine curiosity and control in questioning comes up. Practical practices are discussed, like asking three questions before advising and using divergent versus convergent questions. They highlight thinking versus feeling questions and simple, perspective-shifting 'magic' questions.
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Kenneth Questions That Aren't Questions
- Tricia recounts a campus attendee who asked rhetorical 'questions' and then lectured for minutes.
- She calls those Kenneth questions to illustrate pseudo-questions that aren't genuine inquiries.
Ask Three Questions Before You Speak
- Practice asking three questions before offering your opinion to stay curious and avoid jumping in.
- Tricia recommends trying this with family or friends to notice how hard it is to hold curiosity.
Divergent Versus Convergent Questions
- Distinguish divergent questions that open possibilities from convergent questions that narrow choices.
- Use divergent prompts like What else? for brainstorming and convergent prompts like Which option would we pursue? to focus.






