The Leader's Journey Podcast

How to Ask a Question

Mar 28, 2026
They explore how the phrasing, tone, and timing of questions shape responses and relationships. The difference between genuine curiosity and control in questioning comes up. Practical practices are discussed, like asking three questions before advising and using divergent versus convergent questions. They highlight thinking versus feeling questions and simple, perspective-shifting 'magic' questions.
Ask episode
AI Snips
Chapters
Books
Transcript
Episode notes
ANECDOTE

Kenneth Questions That Aren't Questions

  • Tricia recounts a campus attendee who asked rhetorical 'questions' and then lectured for minutes.
  • She calls those Kenneth questions to illustrate pseudo-questions that aren't genuine inquiries.
ADVICE

Ask Three Questions Before You Speak

  • Practice asking three questions before offering your opinion to stay curious and avoid jumping in.
  • Tricia recommends trying this with family or friends to notice how hard it is to hold curiosity.
INSIGHT

Divergent Versus Convergent Questions

  • Distinguish divergent questions that open possibilities from convergent questions that narrow choices.
  • Use divergent prompts like What else? for brainstorming and convergent prompts like Which option would we pursue? to focus.
Get the Snipd Podcast app to discover more snips from this episode
Get the app