The Look & Sound of Leadership

How To Show Up

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Sep 2, 2021
A leader explores how values like bravery can reshape everyday behavior. Low-risk rehearsals and tiny identity experiments are offered as ways to practice showing up differently. Simple questions and an actor technique using a single 'spine' word help trigger new stances. Recommended reading and playful mind games round out practical ways to experiment with presence.
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ADVICE

Practice Bravery In Low Risk Moments

  • Do rehearse desired behaviors in low-risk moments like brushing your teeth or texting to build habit strength.
  • Tom Henschel instructs Chin Sun to ask, "What would be different if I were a little braver right now?" during routine tasks to practice bravery before high-risk meetings.
INSIGHT

Values Change How You Choose To Act

  • Insight: Values can drive how you choose to show up, not just momentary self-control.
  • Chin Sun reframes 'be braver' as a core value and explores using that value to win internal arguments that stop her speaking up.
ADVICE

Use Precise Questions To Trigger New Behaviors

  • Try using targeted questions to activate a desired stance: ask 'What would be different if I were a little braver right now?'
  • Tom offers alternate prompts like 'What would a brave person do right now?' and 'What would I think or feel if I were my bravest self?'
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