The Dildorks Gremlin Container
May 30, 2023
Dee Darkholme, performer and partner of Billy, brings kink-forward perspectives as an active creator D_Darkholme. They explore free use CNC play, the appeal of objectification and passive pleasure, contrasting kidnap-style and hedonistic scenes. The conversation covers negotiation, timebound containers, signals, low-risk activities, and emotional boundaries in planning a real-life scene.
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Free Use As A Timeboxed Everyday Container
- Free use is a time-boxed CNC container where the top's pleasure is prioritized across ordinary activities.
- Billy describes it as intermittent mini-scenes over hours, turning normal moments (walking, TV) into possible interruptions.
Objectification And Idle Pleasure Drive The Fantasy
- The erotic pull comes from objectification plus the permission to prioritize the top's pleasure even if the bottom isn't fully engaged.
- Billy highlights 'idle' pleasure (fidget-like touching) and feeling desirable when ignored or treated as an object.
Gremlin Impulses Justify Spontaneous Use
- Dee shares gremlin impulses that strike anytime, like suddenly wanting to lick Billy's butthole when he walks by.
- These spontaneous urges illustrate why a free use container legitimizes acting on fleeting desires.