Good Inside with Dr. Becky

Your Motherhood is Only as Powerful as Your Personhood - Revisit

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Apr 21, 2026
Cleo Wade, poet and author of Remember Love who writes about healing and postpartum recovery, shares honest reflections on losing yourself in early parenthood. They talk about postpartum depression, guilt that looks like gratitude, and simple daily anchors like walks, mantras, and micro-breaks. The conversation centers on reclaiming personhood so caregiving can feel sustainable and real.
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INSIGHT

Inner Dialogue Starts Real Change

  • Change starts with your inner dialogue; the first shift is the new thought you choose.
  • Cleo Wade describes using two words—remember love—as an anchor that yanked her from fog and enabled repair.
INSIGHT

Gratitude Must Be Present Not Guilt Based

  • Gratitude lived from guilt isn't true gratitude because it's anchored to story, not the present.
  • Cleo explains real gratitude is a present-moment noticing like the sun coming up, with no stories attached.
ANECDOTE

Bathtub Moment That Started Recovery

  • At her postpartum low, Cleo sat in a bathtub and heard a podcast say remember love, which created a bubble of clarity.
  • She wrote "please remember love" on a Post-it and used it to shift from self-attack to self-care practices.
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