Women of Impact "I Studied Men for 35 Years!" THIS is What They Admit to Me, But Will NEVER Tell You... (Love & Sex) PT2
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Mar 26, 2026 
Alison Armstrong, relationship educator and author behind The Queen's Code, shares her findings from decades studying men. She discusses infidelity, the four core
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Loss Of Confidence Drives Infidelity
- Losing confidence in a partner naturally leads to emotional or sexual infidelity because faith and confidence underpin fidelity.
- Alison compares workplace loyalty to romantic fidelity: when trust evaporates, people seek connection elsewhere, illustrated with employees leaving managers.
My Husband Found Nurture In A Poetry Class
- Alison shares how she stopped nurturing her retired husband, noticed him seeking emotional connection in a poetry class, and realized she was being emotionally neglectful.
- The story led her to see emotional unfaithfulness as seeking nurture elsewhere.
Admiration Is A Core Male Need
- Alison identifies admiration as one of the core 'food groups' men need alongside sex and desire; lacking admiration can drive men to seek validation elsewhere.
- She recounts men saying their partner had sex but didn't want or admire them, so they looked for someone who did.