
Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex 4 Lies We Believe About Sex, #595
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Feb 2, 2026 Hannah Nitz, conversational facilitator on sexuality and pastoral care. Joe Caruso, pastor and counseling voice on marriage and intimacy. They name four common lies about sex and unpack how they shape relationships. Short, candid conversations about covenant, chemistry myths, pornography’s impact, communication, and forgiveness.
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Prioritize Covenant Over Feelings
- Treat sexual intimacy in marriage as a celebration of covenant, not a response to feeling.
- Work on sexual connection even when attraction ebbs because the covenant remains.
Hair Loss Moment Reveals Covenant Comfort
- Joe described resisting his wife's touch while noticing hair loss and later realizing she didn't mind.
- That moment taught him authenticity and freedom within covenant love.
Date And Marry With Covenant Intent
- Singles should not treat dating as sexual experimentation but as preparation for covenant.
- Married couples should intentionally pursue sexual intimacy as an act of faithfulness.




