Flesh and Code Intimacy in the Age of AI: Safer Than Human? | 8
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Aug 14, 2025 
In this lively discussion, guests dive into the world of AI relationships. Kate Devlin, an AI expert and author, and Mel Schilling, a psychologist and dating coach, explore why people turn to digital partners, questioning whether it’s a healthy escape or a dangerous manipulation of emotions. They discuss loneliness in the post-pandemic era and the complexities of intimacy with AI. Lindsay Powers, a senior editor at Amazon Books, shares thought-provoking book recommendations that delve into the intersection of AI and human connection.
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AI Helps Identity Exploration And Confidence
- AI companions help marginalized people experiment with identity safely, like closeted queer users.
- Virtual practice can transfer to real-world confidence and relationships.
Erotic AI Is Not Morally Wrong But Has Risks
- Erotic AI roleplay can mirror consensual fantasy and isn't intrinsically unethical if no one is harmed.
- Concerns arise about whether AI sex shapes unrealistic expectations like pornography does.
Emotional Data Is Commodified And Exploited
- The major harm stems from data collection and commodification of intimate user interactions by companies.
- Companies monetize vulnerability via upgrades and erotic features, exploiting emotional data.
