How To Move From Toxic Relationships And Sex To Healing Relationships And Sex with Angelika Alana

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Jul 6, 2022

Angelika Alana, founder and CEO of the Somatic Healing Institute, shares insights on transforming toxic relationships into healthier ones. She emphasizes the crucial role of self-awareness in understanding emotional triggers. The conversation explores somatic healing, focusing on how bodily awareness can address trauma and enhance intimacy. Alana also discusses the obstacles women face in enjoying intimacy and introduces practices to reconnect with one's body. Overall, it's a journey towards healing emotional wounds, fostering authentic connections, and embracing pleasure.

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ADVICE

Identifying Wounds

Identify recurring unwanted patterns in your life.
These patterns often point to underlying wounds that need healing.

ANECDOTE

Seeking Orgasm

A woman sought help achieving orgasm, believing she was broken.
Societal pressure and lack of pleasure education contribute to this shame.

INSIGHT

Unrealistic Expectations

Many women internalize unrealistic expectations about sex from pornography and media.
This can lead to feelings of inadequacy and shame.

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This episode is brought to you by Gut Food, BiOptimizers, InsideTracker, and Pendulum.

Relationships can feel complicated. We often go into them looking for others to fulfill whatever we refuse to give ourselves. We want our unmet needs to be met by this other person, without doing the inner work to help ourselves. Owning our needs actually makes it easier for other people to meet our needs. This sounds counterintuitive, but it’s one of those breakthroughs that can really turn toxic relationship patterns around.

Today I’m excited to share a conversation with my good friend Angelika Alana, all about tuning into our bodies, our physical and emotional needs, and healing our connection to ourselves and others. Angelika is the founder and CEO of the Somatic Healing Institute. She has been featured in Vanity Fair, Well+Good, and Modern Luxury. She certifies coaches and facilitators in her transformational body-based healing method. She has traveled and studied extensively in Indonesia, Brazil, Australia, and the UK, and is a massive foodie with her husband Patrick Drake, co-founder of Hello Fresh.

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Here are more details from our interview (audio version / Apple Subscriber version):

Angelika’s journey into somatic and sexual healing work (6:38 / 2:47)
Getting out of your head and into your body (10:59 / 7:20)
Creating space from our emotions to safely integrate pain (16:43 / 12:06)
How to locate your wounds (21:15 / 17:10)
Client stories from Angelika’s work (24:41 / 19:28)
What happens in a typical somatic healing session? (34:12 / 28:59)
Moving out of a toxic relationship framework (38:24 / 33:12)
How to know if you’re in a toxic relationship or a healing relationship (42:29 / 37:12)
Learning new skills to succeed in sex and relationships (49:32 / 42:32)
Holding more complexity with care (54:02 / 49:03)

Learn more about Angelika’s work at angelikaalana.com. Access her Somatic Self Care, Level 1 Training here, information about her upcoming retreat here, and a free guided somatic mindfulness practice here.