Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled When Children Seem Troubled by Our Emotions and Moods
Jan 6, 2022
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Toddler Repeatedly Checks On Mom's Happiness
- Parent describes a 28-month-old who repeatedly asks "Happy, Mammy?" and offers hugs when she says she's not happy.
- The parents worry he might be taking responsibility for their emotions because of their family histories.
Explain Your Feelings Briefly
- Give brief, clear context when a child notices you seem unhappy so they know it's not about them.
- Explain the cause (lost keys, worrying about a grandparent) and reassure them you'll feel better soon.
Reparenting Can Make You Hyper-Aware
- Parents who reparent themselves often become hyper-aware and may get stuck on issues that mattered to them as children.
- That very investment can make it harder to objectively see normal developmental processes in their kids.