The Dildorks Gimme That Big Hard Lock
Nov 16, 2023
Dive into the intriguing world of Locktober, a month-long chastity challenge, with insights from a couple navigating its ups and downs. Discover the rising popularity of chastity since the pandemic and hear about the psychological effects of prolonged lockups. They delve into teasing techniques, negotiating boundaries, and the dynamics of keyholding. Learn about the pros and cons of using devices versus going deviceless, plus tips for first-timers. They also explore the Locktober community and the contrasts between it and No Nut November.
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Plan For Low Moments
- Anticipate days of regret or doubt during your first Locktober and plan communication protocols and tasks to stay connective.
- Use check-ins and agreed tasks to avoid feelings of punishment or loneliness.
Set Clear Consequences
- Add clear consequences for unauthorized orgasms (e.g., monetary or gift penalty) to raise stakes and accountability.
- Frame penalties as agreed-upon rules, not shaming tactics, and keep them fun if possible.
Use The Community For Support
- Join Locktober communities for solidarity, shame reduction, and shared tips like cage checks and progress posts.
- Use community momentum to sustain longer lockups if you enjoy public accountability.