Almost 30 Ep. 140 - #ItsMiracleSeason: The Bachelorette’s Eric Bigger on Relationships, The Art of Listening and Diversity in Reality TV
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Aug 16, 2018 Eric Bigger, a former contestant on The Bachelorette and Bachelor in Paradise, shares his refreshing insights on relationships and reality TV. He highlights the importance of listening to understand, and discusses being 'emotion rich' versus material wealth. Eric reveals the behind-the-scenes dynamics of dating on TV and reflects on the impact of diversity—or the lack thereof—in the franchise. He touches on commitment's varied meanings and the reality of dating post-show, encouraging a deeper discourse on love and authenticity.
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Identity vs. Profession
- People often equate their identity with their profession, but true fulfillment comes from who you are, not what you do.
- Eric Bigger emphasizes the importance of focusing on personal growth and not getting things because of what you do but who you are.
Intuitive Move to LA
- Eric Bigger's move to LA was guided by intuition, including a conversation with his dad and a friend's mom.
- Despite seeming risky, his intuition proved correct, leading to opportunities like the Almost 30 podcast.
Monogamy as a Practice
- A Netflix documentary challenges the idea of monogamy, differentiating between love and monogamy.
- It argues that love is a feeling while monogamy is a practice, not necessarily natural or suitable for everyone.
