
Financial Feminist 236. Is Capitalism Ruining My Sex Life? With Queer Sex Therapist Casey Tanner
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Jun 2, 2025 Casey Tanner, an AASECT certified sex therapist and author of "Feel It All," explores the intersections of capitalism, sexual intimacy, and identity. They discuss how productivity obsession and purity culture influence not just finances but also personal relationships with sex. The conversation dives into the impact of societal pressures and past traumas on intimacy, advocating for open dialogue about gender dynamics and pleasure. Listeners are invited to reflect on their beliefs while learning strategies to revive excitement in long-term relationships.
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Virginity as Social Construct
- Virginity is a social construct benefiting patriarchal control and capitalist tracking.
- Biologically, the hymen's state is not a valid measure of virginity or sexual activity.
Talk Openly With New Partners
- Approach every sexual partner as uncharted territory.
- Communicate openly about desires and boundaries rather than guessing.
Honor Your Sexual Desire Spectrum
- Recognize your position on the spontaneous-responsive desire spectrum.
- It's okay to choose rest or other activities over sex even if desire is present.
