The Rich Somers Report “The Psychology Behind Why Women Say Yes — And How to Apply It” From a Men's Dating Coach | Kavita Ajwani E484
Apr 4, 2026
Kavita Ajwani, a men's dating and psychology coach who helps men build confidence and abundant dating lives, explains why subtle signals and presence matter more than lines. Short takes on reading female interest, overcoming approach anxiety without seeming creepy, keeping social muscles active, and how status, maturity, and shifting roles shape modern attraction.
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Confidence Sparks Female Interest
- Insight: Women often respond to confident initiative and may not notice interest until a man shows masculine confidence.
- Kavita says confident moves can spark curiosity and turn passive interest into attraction.
Approach With Sincerity Not Scripts
- Do be sincere and kind when approaching; your mindset determines whether you come across as creepy.
- Kavita: if approaching is your normal behavior, it won't feel creepy to others; lead by example and change the narrative.
Dating Roles Are Rapidly Shifting
- Insight: Dating norms are shifting as women gain status and independence, altering traditional male/female roles.
- Kavita and Rich note confusion about roles, with both sexes renegotiating where they fit in today.