Change Your Brain Every Day

Dr. Daniel Amen's Simple Tip to Change the Dynamic in any Relationship

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Feb 13, 2026
A simple behavioral tip: deliberately notice and praise positives in family members more than negatives. A penguin-training story illustrates how rewarding good behavior changes dynamics. Untreated ADHD and conflict patterns in families are explored. A practical plan shows how withholding reaction to criticism and offering genuine praise can calm and reshape relationships.
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ADVICE

Prioritize Noticing The Positive

  • Notice what you like about your children and grandchildren far more than what you dislike.
  • Use consistent positive attention to shape better behavior and relationships.
ANECDOTE

Jessie's Turnaround And Family Tension

  • Jessie ran away, cut herself, and failed in school before brain-focused treatment improved her stability and grades.
  • Family dynamics, especially an untreated ADHD mother, threatened her progress and drove conflict.
INSIGHT

Untreated ADHD Fuels Family Conflict

  • Untreated ADHD can drive conflict-seeking behavior and destabilize family relationships.
  • Taking care of your own brain is essential to raising mentally strong kids.
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