The Dildorks Words of Jizzdom
Mar 3, 2026
They break down when to give or refuse advice and how to check if someone wants blunt feedback or support. Strategies for avoiding sex on a date and navigating power dynamics in friendships come up. Practical tips on advising partners about other relationships, managing bias and jealousy, and when to opt out of repeating advice. They also touch on limits of public advice and pros and cons of sex and kink coaching.
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Ask If They Want Critique Or Praise
- Ask whether someone actually wants critique or praise before offering it.
- Kate Sloan says she checks whether a writer wants edits or compliments because harsh edits can discourage new creators.
Perceived Authority Amplifies Harmful Advice
- Avoid publicly giving advice on topics you don't understand because your perceived authority can mislead people.
- Billy Lohr warns that behind a screen your words gain authority and can do harm if you're unqualified.
Friend Let My Opinion Decide Their Piercing
- Kate Sloan recounts a high school friend who valued her opinions so much they based body-mod choices on them.
- The friend asked whether to get a tongue or eyebrow piercing and wanted Kate's preference because she wanted to please her.
