Husband Material How To Take A Redemptive Risk (LIVE)
Feb 23, 2026
A deep dive into taking redemptive risks for healing and outgrowing porn. Short contrasts between clean pain and dirty pain. Real-life examples of brave disclosures and embodied group practices. Practical prompts: start with why, count the cost, and own your strength before acting.
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Clean Pain Versus Dirty Pain
- Redemptive risk is choosing clean pain that can build growth rather than dirty pain that avoids or blames.
- Drew Boa contrasts clean pain (step into unknown, vulnerability) with dirty pain (avoidance, cruelty) to show which pain heals.
Vulnerability Is Becoming Woundable
- Redemptive risk is vulnerability, not mere transparency, because vulnerability removes the protective glass and makes you woundable and healable.
- Drew Boa uses the tiger-and-glass example to show why being visible differs from being vulnerable.
Choose One Specific Risk And Prepare
- Name one specific redemptive risk you need to take (eg. tell spouse, join group, confront fear) and prepare with wisdom and support.
- Drew Boa and listeners list concrete risks like confessing porn struggles, attending recovery groups, and sharing in person.
