
Short Wave This is your brain on pleasure (even the guilty kind)
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Mar 16, 2026 A look at why some pleasures feel embarrassing and how social judgment shapes what we enjoy. Neuroscientists break pleasure into a cycle of wanting and liking with different brain mechanisms. The conversation covers hedonic hotspots, how wanting can outlast liking in addiction, and experiments showing guilt can actually boost reported enjoyment.
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BookTok Dragon Romances Led To Embarrassed Joy
- Rachel Carlson describes getting sucked into BookTok and reading spicy dragon romance novels that brought her unexpected joy.
- She felt embarrassed about enjoying them and called pleasure activist Sammy Schalk to explore why joy can trigger shame.
Pleasure Operates As A Wanting Liking Learning Cycle
- Pleasure is a cycle with distinct stages: wanting, liking, and learning rather than a single brain system.
- Neuroscientists like Morten Kringelbach emphasize that this cycle supports survival by motivating energy-seeking and reproductive behaviors.
Wanting Shows Up As Motivation In Deep Reward Areas
- The wanting stage reflects motivation and is measurable by how much work someone will do to get a reward.
- This wanting engages the brain's reward areas like the nucleus accumbens and ventral striatum to cue expectation.
