Lead. Win. - An Extreme Ownership Podcast

Why Does Feedback Hurt So Much?

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Jul 18, 2025
Uncover the unexpected gift that feedback can be for leaders. Learn why our instinctive resistance to critique can hinder growth, and discover powerful ego-check questions. The hosts emphasize the importance of embracing humility and self-assessment to unlock real potential. Real-life stories illustrate how extreme ownership transforms negativity into positive action. Explore effective strategies for giving and receiving feedback while cultivating trusted relationships that promote honest reflection and continuous improvement.
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ANECDOTE

Leif Babin Learns from Harsh Feedback

  • Leif received harsh anonymous feedback about his leadership contribution.
  • Instead of defensiveness, he reflected, learned, and found ways to enhance his impact.
ANECDOTE

Leader Improves After Harsh Feedback

  • A business leader was frustrated with harsh feedback affecting bonuses.
  • After detaching and honest reflection, he accepted valid points and improved his team’s performance.
ADVICE

Check Ego Before Reacting

  • Always identify when your ego triggers defensive reactions to negative feedback.
  • Separate valid feedback from ego-driven denial and take actionable steps to improve.
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