
Sex for Saints Episode 332 - What Is Your Touch Communicating
Aug 30, 2024
They dig into why nonsexual touch matters as much as sex and how it shapes bonds. They contrast intimate versus sexual touch and explore why people pull away. They cover asking for specific touch, touch as foreplay, and ways to build daily touch rituals. They also address touch aversion, consent, and practical tips for giving and receiving touch.
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Ask Specifically For The Touch You Want
- Be specific about the touch you want: ask for a handhold or a hug, or request a gentle neck kiss to set sexual tone.
- Amanda Lauder gives exact phrases like "A hug right now would really comfort me" and sexual requests to set the stage.
Host Uses Holding To Regulate Anxiety
- Amanda Lauder shares asking her husband to hold her when anxious and how that calms her.
- She notes he is always willing to give that support, illustrating practical mutual comfort.
Touch Can Spark Responsive Desire
- Touch can trigger responsive desire where arousal arises from stimuli rather than spontaneously.
- Amanda Lauder illustrates a back rub gradually leading to more intimate touch and sexual arousal.
