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244: The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier

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Mar 13, 2026
They unpack a seven-question coaching approach that makes coaching quick and practical. Conversation covers using brief ten-minute coaching, habit formation, and scripts to replace small talk. They explain questions like "what's on your mind?", "and what else?", and "how can I help?" and discuss applying the questions across email and Slack to build curiosity and empower teams.
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ADVICE

Expand Options With And What Else

  • Use the "And what else?" question to generate more options and avoid jumping to the first solution.
  • Cory and Mike recommend using it in coaching and personal planning to outsmart binary choices and the advice monster.
INSIGHT

Force Ownership By Asking For You

  • Reframe vague complaints with "What's the real challenge for you?" to move from abstract venting to actionable problems.
  • Adding "for you" forces ownership and prevents tangents about others or symptoms.
ADVICE

Move To Action By Asking What Do You Want

  • Prioritize action by asking "What do you want?" instead of why questions to move conversations toward concrete next steps.
  • Use this in adult-to-adult relationships so requests can be clear and refused without hostility.
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