
Bookworm 244: The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier
They unpack a seven-question coaching approach that makes coaching quick and practical. Conversation covers using brief ten-minute coaching, habit formation, and scripts to replace small talk. They explain questions like "what's on your mind?", "and what else?", and "how can I help?" and discuss applying the questions across email and Slack to build curiosity and empower teams.
01:26:28
Expand Options With And What Else
- Use the "And what else?" question to generate more options and avoid jumping to the first solution.
- Cory and Mike recommend using it in coaching and personal planning to outsmart binary choices and the advice monster.
Force Ownership By Asking For You
- Reframe vague complaints with "What's the real challenge for you?" to move from abstract venting to actionable problems.
- Adding "for you" forces ownership and prevents tangents about others or symptoms.
Move To Action By Asking What Do You Want
- Prioritize action by asking "What do you want?" instead of why questions to move conversations toward concrete next steps.
- Use this in adult-to-adult relationships so requests can be clear and refused without hostility.
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Intro
00:00 • 13min
Why we need a coaching habit
12:43 • 2min
Mike's experience using the book at work
14:51 • 5min
Coaching quickly: ten-minute coaching
19:46 • 3min
Building the coaching habit
23:15 • 4min
Kickstart question: what's on your mind
27:20 • 3min
Awe question: and what else?
30:48 • 3min
Focus question: what's the real challenge for you
34:09 • 5min
Foundation question: what do you want
39:00 • 8min
Lazy question: how can I help
46:34 • 4min
Strategic question: what are you saying no to
50:54 • 6min
Learning question: what was most useful
56:55 • 3min
Using questions across channels
01:00:23 • 4min
Conclusion: curiosity as managerial leverage
01:04:00 • 6min
Action items: practicing the seven questions
01:09:43 • 5min
Style and recommendation
01:14:18 • 4min
Next books and gap reads
01:18:35 • 5min
Closing notes and Patreon
01:23:24 • 3min
Outro
01:25:54 • 33sec

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Strangers and Sojourners
A Novel (Children of the Last Days Series #1)


Michael D. O'Brien
Anne, a highly educated Englishwoman raised in a family of spiritualists and Fabian socialists, arrives in British Columbia at the end of the First World War seeking adventure.
She meets and marries a trapper-homesteader, an Irish immigrant fleeing his violent past.
The story follows their gradual journey from despair and unbelief to faith, hope, and love, interwoven with scenes from Ireland, England, Poland, Russia, and Belgium during the War, revealing the extraordinary hidden within the ordinary.

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Playing to Win
How Strategy Really Works


Roger Martin


A.G. Lafley
This book teaches the 5-question Strategy Choice Cascade and the 7-question Strategy Logic Flow, frameworks developed by Roger Martin and applied by A.G.
Lafley during his tenure as CEO of Procter & Gamble.
It emphasizes the importance of focusing on where and how to win, using real-life examples from P&G to illustrate how these strategies can be applied across various organizations.
The authors argue that companies must 'play to win' rather than just 'play to play,' highlighting the need for clear strategic goals and selective focus on winning aspirations.

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The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
A Leadership Fable


Patrick Lencioni
This book explores the fundamental causes of team failure and organizational politics through a narrative about a fictional company, DecisionTech, Inc. It outlines five dysfunctions: absence of trust, fear of conflict, lack of commitment, avoidance of accountability, and inattention to results.
The book provides practical advice and real-world examples to help teams overcome these dysfunctions and become high-performing teams.

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The Science of Storytelling
Why Stories Make Us Human and How to Tell Them Better


Will Storr

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The Six Types of Working Genius
A Better Way to Understand Your Gifts, Your Frustrations, and Your Team


Patrick Lencioni
In this book, Patrick Lencioni introduces a framework that categorizes individuals into six types of working geniuses: Wonder, Invention, Discernment, Galvanizing, Enablement, and Tenacity.
These geniuses are aligned with different stages of work—ideation, activation, and implementation—and highlight the importance of recognizing and leveraging individual strengths to enhance productivity and job satisfaction.
Lencioni argues that when people work within their natural talents, they experience greater fulfillment and success, and teams become more effective and collaborative.
The book also emphasizes the need to design roles around individuals’ working geniuses rather than traditional task-based job descriptions.

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Free Time
Lose the Busy Work, Love the Business


Jenny Blake

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Essentialism
The Disciplined Pursuit of Less


Greg McKeown
In 'Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less,' Greg McKeown argues that by applying a more selective criteria for what is essential, individuals can regain control of their time and energy.
The book is divided into sections such as Explore, Eliminate, and Execute, providing practical advice on distinguishing the vital few from the trivial many and eliminating non-essential activities.
McKeown emphasizes the importance of clarity of focus, the ability to say 'no,' and living 'by design, not by default.
' This approach helps readers achieve more by doing less and making the highest possible contribution in their personal and professional lives.

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Walden

Henry David Thoreau
Published in 1854, 'Walden; Or, Life in the Woods' is a series of 18 essays that reflect Thoreau's experiences living in a small cabin near Walden Pond from July 1845 to September 1847.
The book is a personal declaration of independence, a social experiment, and a voyage of spiritual discovery.
Thoreau details his life in the woods, discussing the construction of his cabin, his daily activities, and his philosophical reflections on economy, social relations, and the importance of living in harmony with nature.
The work is considered a cornerstone of American literature and a foundational text in the Transcendentalist movement, emphasizing the benefits of a simplified lifestyle and the importance of individual freedom and self-reliance.

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Predictable Profits


Stu McLaren
Predictable Profits by Stu McLaren provides a blueprint for creating financial stability in businesses by transitioning from one-off sales to recurring revenue.
The book outlines a time-tested strategy for launching and scaling membership sites, including attracting, serving, and retaining members.
It is packed with real-life success stories, actionable insights, and inspiration to build a membership site that generates revenue, creates financial stability, and positive impact.

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• Mentioned in 96 episodes
The Coaching Habit
Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever


Michael Bungay Stanier
In 'The Coaching Habit,' Michael Bungay Stanier provides a straightforward and effective approach to coaching.
Drawing on his extensive experience training managers worldwide, he introduces seven essential coaching questions designed to help managers unlock their team's potential.
These questions include the Kickstart Question, the AWE Question, the Lazy Question, the Strategic Question, the Focus Question, the Foundation Question, and the Learning Question.
The book emphasizes the importance of saying less and asking more, fostering a collaborative and empowering work environment.
It combines practical advice with research in neuroscience and behavioral economics, making coaching a daily, informal part of managerial work rather than a formal event.
Today's author promises to transform the way we coach others by offering us seven simple questions. Join Mike & Cory as they attempt to level up their own coaching habits.
- New Media Summit
- The Library
- The Coaching Habit
- Box of Crayons
- Mike’s YouTube channel
- Obsidian Starter Vault
- Free Time by Jenny Blake
- Jenny’s Free Time Toolkit
- Essentialism by Greg McKeown
- Playing to Win by A. G. Lafley & Roger Martin
- The Science of Storytelling by Will Storr
- 6 Types of Working Genius by Patrick Lencioni
- 5 Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni
- Predictable Profits by Stu McLaren
- Sojourners & Strangers by Michael O'Brien
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Cory's Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
