Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled Disturbing Things Kids Bring Home From School
Feb 17, 2026
A parent worries after her five-year-old starts using troubling words and behaviors learned at school. The conversation explores why children copy peers and how imitation is part of learning. Practical scripts and calm, curious responses are offered to reduce reactions and preserve the parent-child connection. Reassurance and resources for navigating this stage are shared.
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Children Test Language To Learn
- Children bring new words and behaviors home to test and learn, not to rebel against parents.
- This exploration shows they're processing social power and fitting experiences into their world.
Mimicry Is Part Of Development
- Imitation of peers often reflects exploration, not a lack of identity or weakness.
- Expect these phases as normal stages in social and emotional development.
Respond With Curious Questions
- Be calmly curious: ask where they heard the word and how it made them feel.
- Let your child explain meaning and use so you become their safe place for processing.