
#171 - The Great Midlife Edit - with Chip Conley & Jerry Colonna
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Apr 30, 2024 Chip Conley and Jerry Colonna discuss embracing midlife as a time of growth and wisdom, highlighting the fear of aging and societal pressures. They explore the role of an elder, emotional intelligence, and leaving a positive legacy. The conversation delves into embracing uncertainty, impermanence, and transitioning through life's stages.
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Gender Differences in Midlife
- Women fear invisibility in midlife, while men fear irrelevance, particularly straight white men who haven't faced other 'isms'.
- Men lack the socialized emotional support systems women often have, making midlife transitions more challenging.
Embracing Elderhood
- Embrace being an 'elder' as a relative term signifying experience and wisdom.
- Modern elders combine wisdom with curiosity, acting as guides rather than dispensers of unsolicited advice.
Comfort with Uncertainty
- Uncertainty, insecurity, and groundlessness are inherent parts of life, especially in midlife.
- Learning to be comfortable with these feelings is key to navigating transitions and becoming an elder.

