
Negotiate Anything Why 90% of People Fail at Networking (The “More Contacts = More Success” Lie)
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Mar 27, 2026 Mark Miller, leadership veteran and co-founder of Lead Every Day, shares lessons from decades at Chick-fil-A on developing leaders. Ronen Olshansky, relational intelligence coach and CEO of Connected Success, reveals generosity-based networking. They unpack why relationships, not solo performance, drive outcomes. Expect practical shifts: move from transactions to community, ask for help, and build a small circle that actively lifts you.
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Mutual Insecurity Killed A Reunion
- Kwame and Ronen shared mutual story of law-firm colleagues both avoiding reconnection due to 'head garbage.'
- Both assumed the other wouldn't want to reconnect, but both were excited when they did, revealing common insecurities.
Build A Focused Tribe Of Co-Elevators
- Build a focused roster of deep relationships (about 20–30) and co-elevate those people to be ambassadors for you.
- Ronen defines co-elevation as reaching high-quality RQ5 relationships where you become mutual ambassadors.
Use Regular Packets Of Generosity
- Schedule 1–2 hours weekly and pepper top contacts every 2–4 weeks with small 'packets of generosity.'
- Examples include asking for advice, sending relevant articles, or brief check-ins to prevent relationship decay.



