
Child 5. Sadness
Dec 10, 2025
Ad Wingerhuts, Emeritus Professor of Emotions and Wellbeing who studies crying and the social functions of tears. He explores why humans uniquely shed emotional tears. He discusses tears from infancy to adulthood. He links crying to helplessness, social signaling, and cultural and gender influences on how we read and respond to tears.
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Tears Are Social Signals Not Bodily Purges
- Ad Wingerhuts shows emotional tears are freshly made from blood via lacrimal glands and mirror stress hormones in blood composition.
- Tears are socially meaningful rather than a bodily purge, contradicting Darwin's claim they had no function.
First Tears Created An Instant Bond
- India Rakusen recounts noticing her son's first shed tears at about a month old and feeling a sudden emotional connection.
- That moment felt qualitatively different from his earlier non-tearful screaming, deepening her sympathy.
Helplessness Drives Many Kinds Of Tears
- Ad links crying to feelings of helplessness and powerlessness across emotions, including anger and joy-induced overwhelm.
- Crying functions as a signal to elicit help, comfort, and social support from others.








