382: [Soapbox] Activities for connection
Better Sex
Outro
Jessa invites listeners to try the exercises, share feedback, and gives closing housekeeping and credits.
Sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman continues last week’s discussion about the potential of MDMA-assisted couples work, emphasizing she is not encouraging MDMA use because it remains a Schedule I illegal substance outside of research. Drawing from a recent 30-hour MDMA-assisted therapy training, she shares several couple “games” that can be helpful with or without an altered state: an appreciation game where partners slowly exchange gratitudes to deepen connection and nervous system regulation; a curiosity game focused on asking authentic, non-adversarial questions and answering truthfully (or passing); a simple difficult-conversation protocol that names fears, desired outcomes, and invites gentle response; and a win-win brainstorming question to generate solutions that meet both partners’ needs. She invites listeners to try the exercises and share feedback, and closes with podcast housekeeping and credits.
00:00 Welcome to Better Sex
00:46 MDMA and Couples Therapy
01:41 Legal Status and Disclaimer
02:51 Appreciation Game
03:51 Curiosity Game
05:04 Difficult Conversation Protocol
06:10 Win Win Brainstorming
07:30 Wrap Up and Listener Call
07:45 Outro and Credits
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