You Can Reflect Instead of Solve

People think of me as like some sort of search engine, like a Google. We actually say, have you actually looked and 99% of the time it's Oh, no, like they didn't think that that was part of the process. But that must be our fault. Right. So I do think that when someone says a statement to us, like they're in the office, I'm having trouble with this thing or and we take it on the signal to the other person is I don't believe that you can handle that. Or if the otherperson is manipulative, we're teaching them, come to me and I will do the stuff that belongs to you. That sounds hard.