I Grieved for 20 Years… Until I Learned This
We are delighted to welcome back Gen Gomlam in this powerful episode.
How do you transform the pain of loss into something life-enhancing? In this conversation, Gen Gomlam – a Buddhist nun and former hospice nurse – shares her deeply personal journey through grief, from the loss of her brother to the healing of her relationship with her father.
Drawing on Buddha's teachings on the mind, she explores how attachment keeps us locked in pain, why grief isn't the badge of love we think it is, and how real happiness can only be found within.
Whether you're navigating loss right now or simply want to understand your mind better, this conversation offers practical wisdom and genuine hope.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction
00:24 Early Experiences With Loss
04:11 Pain Comes From Our Reaction
06:41 Understanding Attachment
11:27 Prolonged Grief Is Attachment
19:07 Love Doesn't Die When They Die
20:36 Healing With Her Father
27:02 Tara's Mantra and the Funeral
31:03 Looking for Love vs. Loving Others
34:00 Therapy, Dharma and Lasting Change
Book References
How to Understand the Mind by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso
Gen Kelsang Gomlam is a senior teacher within the New Kadampa Tradition, an international Buddhist tradition with over a thousand meditation centers worldwide.
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