If you've been putting in the work to heal your anxious attachment but still feel like you're treading water, this episode is for you. In today's episode, I'm sharing what I believe are the three core pillars of healing anxious attachment — and why the sequencing of that work matters just as much as the work itself.
Whether you're just starting out or have been on this journey for a while, having a clear roadmap can be genuinely grounding. Lack of effort is rarely the problem for anxiously attached people — it's about making sure that energy is directed where it will have the greatest impact.
In this episode, I cover:
- Why the mindset you bring to this work is the real foundation — and how approaching healing from a place of shame will undermine everything else
- Understanding your nervous system and building the capacity to self-regulate (hint: it's about much more than crisis management)
- Identifying and shifting the negative core beliefs and core wounds that shape your relationships — and why real self-worth is built through doing, not just affirmations
- Communication skills, boundary-setting, and voicing your needs — and why starting here without the previous two pillars often falls flat
- The common pitfall that keeps so many people stuck, and what to focus on instead
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If you’re curious, add yourself to the waitlist below — the anniversary offer will only be available for 24 hours and only for those on the list.
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