You Can't Think Things Into Existence

i'm horribly independent, and so anybody that becomes dependent on me mentally challenges my sense of independence. You can't be happy together if you're not happy alone. And although it sounds ugly, for the sake of your own happiness, sometimes you have to be selfish. I think this is part of the reason why i've struggled so much relationships. Maybe i need to find dat an ontrepena,. some somebody as busy as i am, someone is independent. maybe i'm wrong.