You Are Not in Control, You Know?

When i had my daughter, my first child, is that it is utter excruciating vulnerability like you have never known before. You do not know what's going to happen next. Our need to protect is tat. We've gone perfectionistic on this. And we're kind of waking up to that. But as a college professor, and i only teach masters and doctor level students, but i see students come to us who have never had experiences, real experiences, with adversity. That shows up in hopelessness.