46: "Is it just relationship anxiety or are there actual issues in my relationship?" with Chelsea Joy Horton
The Anxious Love Coach
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The Fear of Being Obliterated in a Relationship
Chelsy: I think li you're going to get obliterated no matter what, because i think if life senses that you are choosing stagnancy, it'll hit you in the head with a tubi for a and some people choose that by leaving the relationship. Some people let that happen to them through the obliteration of kind of this little eye that you're talking about that can happen within a relationship. In my ten yer relationship, i went through an obliteration of my own without the break up. It's just that people don't typically write movies about about the slow, obliterating ego death that happens in long term, committed partnership. And so there's many routes.
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