

Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Kirk Honda
A psychology podcast that is both educational and entertaining.
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Jan 22, 2026 • 1h 56min
What is Consciousness? (2020 Rerun)
Humberto Castaneda, a regular contributor with insights on psychology and media, joins Kirk to delve into the provocative themes of the series Devs. They explore consciousness, free will, and the implications of a quantum computer that predicts the future. Their discussion includes the show’s unique visuals and sound design, an intriguing analysis of determinism through Nick Offerman's character, and the existential dread of a future where one can see their own destiny. They also tackle the philosophical weight of the narrative and its impact on our understanding of reality.

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Jan 21, 2026 • 1h 19min
Pedophile Urges, People Pleasing, and Kirk Criticism
Dr. Kirk dives into sensitive topics, tackling a listener's traumatic disclosure regarding childhood abuse and his identification as a pedophile. He explores how clinicians discuss taboo subjects and offers insights on managing urges ethically. In another segment, Kirk differentiates between people-pleasing and dependent personality disorder, highlighting key symptoms. The discussion includes navigating stigma and the importance of community support in mental health. Kirk also reflects on the podcast's integrity and the impact of audience feedback.

Jan 20, 2026 • 43min
Hair Pulling Disorder (2015 Rerun)
Explore the intriguing world of hair pulling disorder, known as trichotillomania. The discussion reveals the powerful urge and relief cycle that compels individuals to pull hair, often leading to shame. Learn about the neurobiological factors at play and the role of dopamine in these behaviors. Treatment options, especially cognitive behavioral therapy, are examined alongside the limitations of medications. The importance of social support and understanding family patterns adds depth to this fascinating topic.

Jan 19, 2026 • 57min
Attachment Annoyance, Aromanticism, and Break-In Trauma
Exploring attachment styles, the discussion reveals how secure attachment is often seen as the gold standard in relationships. Kirk highlights the complexities of romantic commitments, arguing that while many seek long-term partnerships, others thrive without them. A listener's journey through break-in trauma sheds light on recovery strategies and the significant impact trauma can have on well-being. The episode balances personal anecdotes with clinical insights, making for an engaging listening experience.

Jan 16, 2026 • 1h 38min
Movies of 2025
Dive into a riveting discussion about movies from 2025, featuring childhood nostalgia with "Where the Red Fern Grows" and critiques of franchise fatigue in "Avatar: Fire and Ash." Discover the successful sequel of "Zootopia 2" and the intense thrills of "House of Dynamite." Kirk reflects on the mixed reception of the latest "Fantastic Four" and the humorous charm of recent comedies. He also revisits classics like "The Last Jedi" and shares his binge-worthy recommendation, "The Residence." It’s a cinematic rollercoaster of insights!

Jan 15, 2026 • 1h 37min
Is Facebook Evil? (2020 Rerun)
The hosts dive into the controversial documentary 'The Social Dilemma,' critiquing its sensationalism while acknowledging its educational value. They explore how platforms like Facebook, Google, and Twitter manipulate user attention for profit, creating echo chambers and polarization. Comparing today's media to historical manipulation, they discuss the balance between privacy and convenience. Practical advice on social media usage and the emotional impacts of heavy use are also highlighted, offering insights on connection, self-esteem, and mental health.

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Jan 14, 2026 • 51min
Schemas, Narcissism, and Angry Kirk
Dive into the complexities of human behavior as Dr. Kirk explores the idea of having multiple schemas shaped by childhood trauma. Discover how traits of borderline and narcissism can overlap, and the subtle nuances of covert narcissism. Kirk critiques the tendency of novice clinicians on social media to label characters like Will Hunting, asserting that his emotional struggles stem more from avoidant attachment than narcissism. It's a fascinating discussion that sheds light on empathy, self-control, and the misconceptions in modern psychology.

Jan 13, 2026 • 1h 49min
Is This Gaslighting? (2021 Rerun)
Dive into the intricate world of gaslighting as the hosts dissect its origins and provide a detailed checklist for identification. Explore chilling real-life examples, including historical cases and personal stories from listeners that highlight manipulation and denial. The discussion also touches on related concepts like brainwashing and medical gaslighting, revealing societal patterns and the nuances of intimacy. Practical advice for recognizing and combating these tactics wraps up the conversation, empowering listeners to seek support.

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Jan 12, 2026 • 1h 26min
Couple Therapy Ethics Case
A deep dive into a malpractice case unfolds, focusing on a couple's therapy gone wrong. The discussion highlights the challenges of transitioning to individual therapy after divorce and the crucial importance of informed consent. Confidentiality breaches become a central theme, especially when custody battles ignite. Ethical dilemmas surface as a therapist makes contentious custody recommendations, leading to a legal showdown. Dr. Kirk shares practical advice while reflecting on personal panic experiences, making for an engaging and informative listen.

Jan 9, 2026 • 1h 23min
Dissociation, Sociopaths, and Histrionic
Explore the intriguing world of dissociation with insights on its cognitive impacts and signs. Discover the complexities of sociopathy and the mislabeling stemming from trauma and social influences. Kirk discusses the nuances between antisocial behaviors and the challenges of diagnosing personality traits in minors. Unpack the viral Kendra TikTok case to understand personality distortions and treatment strategies, emphasizing the delicate balance in therapy while addressing past traumas.


