Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories

S and C are scientists and foodies who share a deep love. One thing they don't share is an equal desire for sex. While S is pretty much always "ready to go," her partner C desires sex less often. And when he does desire it, his wants aren't always those that S can fulfill. Shan is a virtual assistant and mother of two homeschooled teens who consistently desired sex less often than her beloved late husband, Jim. Navigating these differences well came in waves, she said, as they learned what did and didn't help over the years. For this Girl Boner Radio episode, August spoke with S and C and with Shan about their journeys and ways to manage mismatched libido in a loving relationship. Content note: This episode includes mentions of abuse, miscarriage and death. Correction: Shan is a "widowed mother of two teens who never went to school," meaning she homeschools them. Shan did go to traditional school. Find Valentine's Day gifts for you or a parter at The Pleasure Chest! Save 25% on Dr. Megan's Rekindle Desire program! Through Valentine's Day, 2021. Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Produced and edited by August McLaughlin Transcript support from KM Huber

Have you sent intentions for 2021? How about sexual intentions? As we make our way into a new year and reflect on what hasn't worked so well in the past, we shan't forget our sex lives! A few things you'll learn about in this episode: A common lube mistake to avoid A type of harmful self-talk that's super easy to fall into What to do when you feel uncomfortable during sex Which fantasies to speak up about (and ways to do so) Ways to feel more sex-inclined, if or when you wish to More! Check out the Sexy Self-Care collection at The Pleasure Chest! Save 25% on Dr. Megan's Rekindle Desire program! Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Brought to you a day early, in light of Inauguration Day on 1/20! Produced and edited by August McLaughlin

Sex-Positive Parenting, Fetish Play and Sexual Liberation with Jet Setting Jasmine As a trauma-informed clinical therapist, sex worker, parent of three and woman of color, Jet Setting Jasmine knows a great deal about these topics, from personal and professional experience. A few things you'll learn in this episode: What Jasmine learned about sex early on and ways she challenged the negative messages early on Benefits of sex-positive parenting and ways implement it How kink and fetish play can support healing from trauma What the hashtag #pornandparenting is all about Ways racism and racist stereotypes harm folks in the BIPOC community Jasmine's top advice for sexual liberation Dr. Megan's thoughts for a listener who wonders what to do when a couple is compatible in every way, except sexually Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner Download a free gift from Dr. Megan Fleming: greatlifegreatsex.com Produced and edited by August McLaughlin

Ever considered putting a ring on it? On a penis, that is... Or wondered about reaching climax in "perfect time" with a partner? (Hint: simultaneous Os are pretty rare, but that doesn't mean you can't invite or embrace them.) A few things you'll learn in this episode: Sexual trends during the pandemic A bit of cock ring history The best cock rings for beginners How cock rings can help in the erection + pleasure departments Facts about simultaneous orgasms August and Dr. Megan's tips for a listener who wants to experience simultaneous orgasms with her husband The role edging, aka orgasm control, can play Peruse popular cock rings at The Pleasure Chest! Join August on Patreon + get your handy cock ring guide! patreon.com/girlboner Sign up for occasional Girl Boner updates by email: girlboner.org Learn more from Dr. Megan Fleming: greatlifegreatsex.com Produced and edited by August McLaughlin

They aren't all holidays-themed, but some fun distraction may be just what 2020 ordered! August wraps up the Girl Boner Radio year by sharing the voices and stories of librarian Jess Witkins, publicist Will Armstrong, sex educator Angelique Luna and #open's Maile Manliguis. A few things you'll hear about this episode: Some intense improv (and okay, lies) that fueled romance Attraction that was finally acted on, after a date with someone else A play date that turned into a lengthy therapy session An odd kind of handsy-ness at the end of sex Wild animals on a wild night Why "green flags" are important in relationships How to navigate sexual dysfunction or low desire after an ex's infidelity (and then some), with Dr. Megan A fun and spicy gift to consider for you and/or a partner The show will return on January 6th. Wishing you meaningful holidays! Shop holiday specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Get the replay of Kenneth Play's top 3 sex hacks! greatlifegreatsex.com/sexhacks/ Edited and produced by August McLaughlin Transcript support from KM Huber

Long-time sex therapist Tara Galeano, speaks about her a journey to rediscover her body after difficulties in her personal life and health served as a major wakeup call. She now approaches her life and her work very differently. A few things you'll learn in this episode: How Catholic messaging early on impacted Tara's ideas about sex and marriage How she (and her body) responded to learning about her then husband's deceptions Body mapping basics and how it plays out in group therapy How you can try body mapping at home Benefits of body mapping, from stronger intimacy to kinkier sex The basics of touch starvation ("skin hunger") and 6 ways to manage it with Dr. Megan Fleming About Tara's new book, Rediscovering My Body Join the Girl Boner Radio Patreon community! patreon.com/girlboner Join us on Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Narrated and produced by August McLaughlin Transcript support from KM Huber

Thien-Kim Lam, founder of Bawdy Bookworms, and Nhakia Outland, founder of Prevention Meets Fashion, run sex-positive businesses that stem from personal experience, as well as passion for cultivating needed change. A few things you'll hear in this episode: About Thien-Kim and Nhakia's sexual empowerment journeys Thien-Kim's top sex toy tip for newbies, plus pleasure advice for us all Nhakia's thoughts on fashion as a powerful form of self care, activism and personal identity Dr. Megan Fleming's thoughts for a listener who's struggling with anxiety around anal sex and penis size Join the Girl Boner Radio Patreon community: patreon.com/girlboner Shop holiday specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Sign up for Sex Hacks with Kenneth Play, hosted by Dr. Megan: greatlifegreatsex.com/sexhacks/ Join us on Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Edited and produced by August McLaughlin Transcript support from KM Huber

There are not easy times, especially for anyone who was struggling with mental health issues before the pandemic. Whatever you're feeling is valid and all of us at Girl Boner Central hope this special pre-holiday episode brings you some comfort and light. In this episode: Ellen Kahn, Senior Director of Programs and Partnerships for the Human Rights Campaign, speaks about her background and work with the Human Rights Campaign, and ways COVID-19 is impacting the LGBTQIA+ community, especially trans and queer people of color. Thomas Davis, Founder/Artistic Director & Project Lead for The Creative Remedy & Education Workshop, speaks about his personal journey, from growing up as one of the only Black kids in his school and learning perplexing information about sex and sexuality to realizing he was HIV positive and becoming an outspoken advocate. He shares how the pandemic has been impacting his own mental health, as well as what's been helping. Dr. Amelia Burke-Garcia, program area director at NORC at the University of Chicago and director of How Right Now, talks about the research behind the initiative, its aims and ways we can all benefit from it. The guests also share messages of hope for anyone really struggling and what they're most grateful for lately. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose primary relationship is strained by pressures to attend group holiday gatherings. How can she smoothen things out with her wife, protect both of their health and ensure special holidays? A few things you'll learn: Ways COVID-19 is impacting mental health, wellbeing, coping and resilience Unique challenges folks in the LGBTQIA+, BIPoC and poly communities are facing How to talk to a partner about tense pandemic-related challenges COVID-19 safety tips related to gatherings What it's like to use the How Right Now website More! Get the support you need: howrightnow.org Holiday Celebrations and Gathering Tips: cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/daily-life-coping/holidays Sign up for Dr. Megan's free 9-day pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure Join the exclusive Girl Boner community: patreon.com/girlboner

Have you ever wondered what it's like to live with bipolar disorder or wished that you didn't feel alone in your mental health journey? Or wondered what it's really like to make out with a fellow actor on camera? If so, pull up a chair! In addition to being an established actress, Alessandra Toressani speaks about her journey with bipolar publicly and advocates for mental health awareness on her podcast, Emotional Support. And she had so much wisdom to share for listeners. A few things you'll learn in this episode: How bipolar presents in Alessandra and the surprising way she was diagnosed How bipolar has impacted her sex life and relationships Her thoughts on three listener questions on mental health, sex and dating How she feels about kissing and make out scenes Dr. Megan's thoughts on the importance of explicit sex advice A spicy clitoral play activity for big time pleasure About a FREE upcoming workshop for more sex hacks, featuring Dr. Megan and Kenneth Play Alessandra Torresani on IG: @alessandratorresani + @emotionalsupportpod Join Girl Boner Radio on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/girlboner Sign up for Sex Hacks with Kenneth Play, hosted by Dr. Megan: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/sexhacks/ Shop holiday specials at The Pleasure Chest! https://thepleasurechest.com Girl Boner: https://augustmclaughlin.com/ IG: @GirlBonerMedia

August launched an exclusive Girl Boner community on Patreon! Learn more in this quickie announcement episode. Check out the reward and sign up here: http://patreon.com/girlboner