Girl Boner Radio: True Sex and Relationship Stories

Amy Baldwin and April Lampert weigh in on genital praising! A few things you'll learn in the episode: What Amy and April learned about sex early on How their paths met (Hint: it involved April spanking herself in a kitchen!) What genital/pussy/penis praising is Benefits of this type of "dirty talk"/sexy talk Simple ways to get started What to do if you feel pressured or obligated to have sex routinely, despite your health issues and lower libido Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order here: https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Check out Dr. Megan's latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner Sign up for occasional email updates or submit a question: augustmclaughlin.com

Did you know the first fairy tales were written by women as feminist critiques? Fairy tales of all kinds can influence what we believe and experience around sex and relationships. Take it from August, a power dynamics expert/former dominatrix and a giantess dominatrix with over 20 years of experience. A few things you'll learn about in the episode: The original fairy tales, which were written as feminist critiques of patriarchy The storyline of the first fairy tale, by Baroness Marie Catherine d'Aulnoy How "Sleeping Beauty" parallels power struggles many women face today, with thoughts from Kashia Urbaniak How a Mother Goose story brought out kinky curiosity in Goddess Severa early on How Goddess Severa went from broke in NYC to a thriving dominatrix career, how her first session went down and what she loves about her work Explore the Pride Month specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Checked out Dr. Megan's Pleasure Picks! greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks Support the show and get fun extras, including bonus content for this episode! patreon.com/girlboner

Are you having the sex you desire, or has sex lost something over time - or perhaps seemed lacking to begin with? Ever wonder what actually happens in sex therapy? Whether you're having sex with a long-time partner(s) or having hookups, you have what Ian Kerner, PhD LFMT calls a sex script, both your own and one you co-create with your partner(s). And gaining awareness about your scripts can go a long way. A few things you'll learn about in the episode: Why Ian says to all of his sex therapy patients, So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex (which is also the title of his new book!) What a sex scripts entails How David and Kate, a couple in their mid-30s, found their way to pleasurable sex by unpacking their personal histories How Jonathan and Chris, a couple in their 40s, saved their relationship and sex life by cultivating a "rec-relational" style Dr. Megan Fleming's tips for finding an ideal therapist Automatically save 15% on your first Promescent order here: https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Check out Dr. Megan's latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner Submit a question for August or Dr. Megan: augustmclaughlin.com/contact Preorder With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships, by Jamila Dawson and August McLaughlin https://www.chicagoreviewpress.com/with-pleasure-products-9781641605038.php?page_id=21

Sophie Saint Thomas, journalist and author of Sex Witch: Magickal Spells for Love, Lust, and Self-Protection, grew up in a sex-positive household and now embraces witchcraft and science. And she has a lot to say about cultivating the sex and love life you desire. A few things you'll learn about in the episode: How a penis candle spell she performed panned out What "love spells" in general are really about A powerful way to use tarot cards (that doesn't involve fortune-telling) Why monogamy and polyamory aren't your only relationship choices and how to choose your best format Sophie's take on post-breakup revenge Dr. Megan and August's thoughts for a listener whose demisexual boyfriend doesn't desire sex very often Follow Sophie on social media: Twitter: @TheBowieCat Instagram: @TheBowieCat Celebrate Masturbation May with a new toy from The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Support the show and get fun extras, including bonus content for this episode! patreon.com/girlboner Have you checked out Dr. Megan's Pleasure Picks for May yet? greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks

Interested in starting a self-pleasure practice or getting more out of your single or dating life? Dr. Megan Stubbs', author of Playing without a Partner: A Singles' Guide to Sex, Dating, and Happiness, has so much to say about all of this! A few things you'll learn about in the episode: What Dr. Megan Stubbs was surprised to learn about sex early on Beginner's masturbation tips Why large dildos are so popular Casual sex tips and whether it's smart to add your COVID vaccine status to your dating profile, with thoughts from Dr. Megan Fleming Save 15% at Promescent automatically at checkout by clicking this link: https://bit.ly/33z44hQ Support the show and get fun extras, including bonus content for this episode! patreon.com/girlboner

"Claiming space is living your life unapologetically and bravely. And it sounds so much easier than it is." So says Eliza VanCort, and for good reason! The author, mentor and speaker speaks about her personal journey to claiming space and practical tips, particularly for women and anyone reared as a girl. A few things you'll learn in the episode: Childhood experiences that made Eliza especially passionate about claiming space The role posture can play in self-confidence and perception A few wonky messages we learn about gender How to claim space during sex Masturbation tips and products worth embracing Learn more about Eliza VanCourt and her book: https://www.elizavancort.com Dr. Megan's latest Pleasure Picks: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks Celebrate Masturbation May with a new toy from The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Support the show and get fun extras, including bonus content for this episode! patreon.com/girlboner

If you've struggled to ask for what you want sexually or aren't even sure what to aim for, you are far from alone. Kait Scalisi, MPH, founder of Passion by Kait, grew up in a household where no conversation topics were taboo, but conflict was. She now helps others find freedom in pleasure. A few things you'll learn about in this episode: Positive versus negative messages about sex and conflict Kait absorbed growing up Kait's advice for figuring out what you actually want in bed Kait's thoughts on listeners' desires and how to bring them up A sex communication tip Kait feels is super impactful and underexplored Why slipping out during sex happens and what to do about it Learn more from Kait and her team and get awesome related resources at passionbykait.com! Save 15% on your first order of lube, arousal gel, delay spray and more at Promescent with promo code august15! Delayspray.com Check out Dr. Megan's FREE pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure Support the show and get fun extras! patreon.com/girlboner Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.

Jordan Power discovered a family secret that changed the course of his life. Shana James realized she was bringing more to the bedroom than her body and desires. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener who's curious about "dirty talk." How can you get started, years into a relationship? Learn more about Jordan on Instagram: @jpowercomedy Watch Shana's TEDx Talk: shanajamescoaching.com "Get sprung" with spring specials at The Pleasure Chest! thepleasurechest.com Check out Dr. Megan's FREE pleasure challenge: greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.

Promescent CEO Jeff Abraham speaks about his sexual empowerment journey, benefits of delay spray and his top sex tips for men and couples! A few things you'll learn about in the episode: What Jeff learned about sex, growing up in the 1960s and '70s What led him from small town life to bigger pastures A few ways to keep sex exciting long term! How delay spray can help penis owners and their partners, whether they're dealing with premature ejaculation (PE) or not Promescent's mission and the tragedy that fuels Jeff's work Save 15% on your first Promescent automatically here! Save $50 on Yarlap with promo code GB50! Learn more at greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks or yarlap.com. For more Girl Boner fun, join August on Patreon: patreon.com/girlboner Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.

Desiree has lived with incontinence for about two decades, since age 6. She wanted to share her story with August because her symptoms have played a big role in her life, including her sexuality, relationships and self-esteem. A few things you'll learn about in the episode: Desiree's experience with urinary incontinence, including challenges and ways she's learned to manage How she navigates sexual intimacy amid her symptoms Facts about urinary incontinence, including the 4 types and how prevalent it is Awesome accessible toys/accessories, available at The Pleasure Chest Dr. Megan's latest Pleasure Pick, Yarlap. Save $50 at checkout with the code GB50! greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasurepicks This episode features voice over artist Rosa Delgado: rosamdelgado6 at gmail dot com Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.