Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast

Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, the author of over a dozen books and video resources on stepfamily living including the bestselling books Building Love Together in Blended Families with Dr. Gary Chapman His podcast FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal and his one-minute radio feature are heard around the world and his work has been quoted/referenced by multiple news outlets such as the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNBC.com, and USA Today. The 5 P's 1. Partnering- With your spouse 2. Pursue- The kids hearts, pursue a relationship with the kids. 3. Pace- Your Pursuit 4. Patience- Tell yourself that it's ok to take time building a relationship. 5. Persistence- Keep on Bonus P – Prayer Use this LINK to access A Guide To Building Love With The Five P's of Stepparenting. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

This is the first of a half dozen strategic times a year we interview what we call our "Average Joes Arena Heroes". We also highlight these guys on our weekly E-Blast through our WAMGI (When a man Gets It) story. These are guys like you and me who are in the arena fighting for those people and causes they love. Don't get me wrong, our experts and authors are WILL continue to be our bread and butter but it's the Average Joe who is the local hero of the Men in the Arena organization. George Sielski is 73 from Jamestown, NY. George has been married to Annette for 54 years in July. George is retired and drives a bus two days a week doing medial transportation. He has been a Gideon for 20 years. He is a Deacon in his church, runs a Virtual Men in the Arena Team as well as helping lead the MITA forum on Face book as an Arena Coach. Quotes: "The Lord will put things in my way. It's up to me to say yes or no." "Loyalty is a rare commodity nowadays." "If you are messed up in your marriage you need to take a look at that. If you are looking at her you have a problem." "There is a special crown in heaven for the people that work with little kids." "You don't know how things will affect you later in life when you are young." "You are what you eat, That's a fact." "Spend as much time planning your marriage as you do your wedding." "If you don't want your prayers hindered, do right by your wife." "I know He is proud of me when I take care of my wife." "You are going to run into storms. Your vows are going to be the only thing that keeps you there." "Are you thinking about cheating? You think its greener on the other side? Let me tell you something. The devil fertilizes it with a lot of manure." Boots on the Ground If you are lacking Grit, get around Men who will challenge you to be a man of Grit. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

In Mark Batterson's book, Play the Man, he writes about the 7 virtues a man should have to become the man God created him to be. Jim Ramos breaks each one down in this short equipping podcast. 1. Tough Love 2. Childlike Wonder 3. Will Power 4. Raw Passion 5. True Grit 6. Clear Vision 7. Moral Courage www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

We believe that too many men these days lack Grit. If things get hard some males bail. If the "Feeling" of love dwindles they bail. "Men are made for pressure" - Brian Doyle In this episode we challenge men to have Grit. Boots on the Ground If you are lacking Grit, get around Men who will challenge you to be a man of Grit. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

In this episode Jim shares about those areas in our lives that we may need to build some grit into. For some it may be our diet. For some it might be purity or thought life. Only you know what that is for you. Jim wants to encourage you to build some grit where you may be lacking. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Gary Chapman has a passion for helping people form lasting relationships. He is known around the world as a marriage counselor, director of marriage seminars, and his nationally-syndicated radio programs air nationally on Moody Radio Network and over 400 affiliate stations. He has authored many books including Five Love Languages that has sold over 12 MILLION copies. He is also the co-author of CHOOSE GREATNESS: 11 Wise decisions that Brave Young Men Make Quotes: -"Our definition of a "great life" is taking what you have and using it to enrich the lives of others." -"However, you will only reach your full potential if you choose greatness". -"We are now looking back on our own lives and realize that many of our most important decisions were made when we were teenagers." -"Life was never meant to be lived alone. As young men, we need the wisdom of our fathers and mothers. Otherwise, we may make decisions based solely upon our feelings rather than upon facts." -"It Is not a sign of weakness to seek help. It is a sign of strength" -"But what else is involved in respecting women, and why should we?" -"We want you to be a man who respects all women in public and in private." - "In every generation there are young men who grow up to make the world a better place, and others who leave behind a trail of pain because of their poor decisions" Choose Greatness "Let's get our Boots on the Ground": What's next? What action step will you take because of today? What will you do because of what you heard? Here it is! Compare the 5 Love Languages and discover which on matches. Your wife the best. Take the test. www.5lovelanguages.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

During uncertain times we may find ourselves scared or fearful. Jim Ramos shares what our response to fear should look like. What has caused you fear recently and where is your focus? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Robert Lewis, pastor and author who founded Men's Fraternity and BetterMan, shares his journey shaping modern discipleship. He recounts football stories, the origins of Men's Fraternity and Raising a Modern-Day Knight, and why he left the pastorate to focus on men’s formation. He explains the BetterMan curriculum, its Genesis-based focus, practical marks of authentic manhood, and how churches can mobilize men for life-giving leadership.

This episode is from our Covid-19 series which we have been producing Live on Facebook each day at 4pm PST. To find all of these video messages follow this link. With all the distractions in this world what is causing you not to focus on Jesus so you can find your joy and peace? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum

Chad Hennings joins us and shares about his service to our country flying the A10 Thunderbolt in combat to playing in the NFL and winning 3 Super Bowls with the Dallas Cowboys, to starting Wingmen ministries and being a part of Promise Keepers. Boots on the Ground Get into some kind of virtual group. Find some sort of online men's small group. Let us know if you need help. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum