Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast

There are plenty of good habits that men in the stress bubble should have. Here is one that we believe you need to have to stay sharp and to lead well. Remember, "Leaders are Learners". www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

This Equipping Episode is taken from Jim's newest book, STRONG MEN DANGEROUS TIMES, Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World. This chapter is Tip of the Spear, Lead by Example. Guys, are you at least doing something to lead? "You have to go out. You don't have to come back." ~Unofficial Coast Guard motto www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Jim Whitmore shares about his "unique" relationship with his father and how he was still able to honor him. His father was married 15 times, and walked out of Death Row in the State Texas! His story should challenge all men in the area of honoring our parents. Jim Whitmore has worked at FamilyLife for 23 years and currently serves as the Event Producer for FamilyLife events, like the Love Like You Mean it Marriage Cruise, FamilyLife Donor Events, Blended and Blessed, and the Summit on Stepfamilies Livestream. Jim currently serve as the President of the National Coalition of Ministries to Men, leading the Men's ministry at his church. He is passionate about reaching young men to experience God in a real, personal and practical way. The Tribute and the Promise Boots on the Ground: Write a tribute letter to your dad. And share it with us. Tribute (Blessing) Letter From NCMM President Jim Whitmore to His Father Edited: May 27, 2021 Dad, you never let me tell you how much I appreciate you and need you in my life. I guess it's your tough outer skin that hides on the softest hearts I have ever known. So, in the presence of my friends and family I would like to take the time to honor you publicly and to thank you. I am so very glad that I didn't have the typical father; I don't know that I would have become the man that I am. You were no Ward Cleaver that's for sure. But I know that no father could love a son more than you did. Ever since I can remember you have told me you love me more than life itself and I have never doubted that. So much of who I am is because of the experience you gave me. I took the best of your qualities and made them a part of who I am and learned from your mistakes, and there were plenty of them as well. We don't always see eye to eye, but you have at least respected my values and beliefs even when they clashed with yours. I can never express my gratitude for the experiences you have given me. You showed me the world through your eyes, our trips around the world expanded my horizons. You always wanted me to see the real side of life but more important than that, you wanted me to experience them. You have never sugar coated or hid the truth and for that I am eternally grateful. So many of my greatest gifts have come from you. You gave me the gift of speech, the ability to be comfortable in any environment, and the confidence to look any man in the eye and consider him my equal. You have taught me to fear no one, except God. You weren't the model Dad, but you were my friend. I always knew that I could tell you the truth about anything and you loved me with all your heart. You gave me a liberal education and made me student of life. What a precious gift. I confess before my friends and family you were the perfect father for me, you were my greatest fan, confidant, and supporter. You loved me and always affirmed me. Dad I love you. I accept you for who you are and thanks for always being there and giving me more than a last name and I will always be there for you. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

This equipping episode is inspired by our interview with Michelle Watson Canfield. This is the T.A.L.K. method to use with your daughter. Time: Carve It Out Affection: She Will Get It Somewhere Listen: Your Greatest Gift Kindness: If It is Broken, DON'T Fix It www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Kenneth Joyner, director of Boys With A Purpose and author of Without A Father, shares concise W.O.W. principles for shaping young men. He discusses love beyond pain, money and purpose, transforming your thinking, responsibility and presence, finishing what you start, resilience through failure, discovering purpose, self-worth, faith, legacy, and living in truth and obedience.

Inspired by our interview with Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield: What are 5 things a dad whisperer does? #1 HE LIKES HIS DAUGHTERS AND ENJOYS BEING WITH THEM #2 HE LETS THEM LEAP, LAUGH AND LOVE BEACUSE HE LETS THEM BE WHO THEY ARE #3 HE LISTENS TO HIS DAUGHTER #4 HE SETS LIMITS #5 HIS DAUGHTERS FOLLOW HIS LEAD IN HONORING HIS FAITH IN JESUS www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Kenneth Joyner, director and co-founder of Boys With A Purpose and author of Without A Father, draws on growing up fatherless to mentor boys. He discusses identity, forgiveness, humility, surrendering selfish goals, embracing wisdom, loving learning, and choosing friends wisely. Short, powerful principles called W.O.W. are shared to guide father figures and young men.

You are not meant to be anonymous. God has placed you in the time place you are in to be a light for Him. So pray this prayer. God put me on display so that I can bring you glory. No more hiding in the pews at your church. Get into the arena! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

In January 2010 Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield founded The Abba Project where she leads dads of daughters ages 13 to 30 to dial in with more intention and consistency to their heart space. She leads a local group in Portland, Oregon annually every year from September through May. (you can read more under The Abba Project) Dr. Michelle has coached offspring Abba Project groups in Virginia and Washington State, with more to come. Dr. Michelle has written a book for dads of daughters titled, Dad, Here's What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter's Heart and it's also available in audiobook form in her own voice on Audible here. Her second book, "Let's Talk, Conversation Starters for Dads and Daughters" is filled with scripts for dads to equip them to strategically lead their daughters into conversations that matter, with a focus on greater depth that will allow her to know herself better! Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield hosts a radio program called The Dad Whisperer where her purpose is to provide practical resources for dads, especially those with daughters. (available here, iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and Google Podcasts) http://www.drmichellewatson.com/ Boots on the Ground For every daughter you have sit down with them and ask them to talk and ask to hear their heart. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast

Persecution of Christians is very prevalent around the world. In America we really don't experience it. But the day is coming. How soft are we when it comes to our faith? We may need to pray for persecution. Are you ready? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast