

The Ace Couple
The Ace Couple
Asexual married couple Courtney and Royce talk about all things Asexuality. By discussing queer culture and history, we’ll explore the topics of life, love, and sex through an Ace lens. Full transcripts and show notes on theacecouple.com.
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Oct 18, 2023 • 1h 6min
Being a Nonbinary Trigender Woman...Maybe??
Today we delve into Courtney’s complex gender history, the limitations of language, the continuous evolution of terminology within queer communities, and the power and pitfalls of labels.

Oct 11, 2023 • 1h 39min
The Queerplatonic Brilliance of Kevin Can F**k Himself
Kevin Can F**k Himself was a masterpiece in subversion. Not only subverting the sitcom genre, but amatonormativity in media and greater society’s preconceived notion of what life partnership must look like. It was iconic and queerplatonic to the very end.

Oct 4, 2023 • 60min
Housing Discrimination: An Unfortunate Update on the Shawnee Co-Living Ban
Remember the infamous Kansas “roommate ban” that we discussed last year? Well, today we have an update after a federal lawsuit was brought against the city of Shawnee and we discuss why housing is an A-spec issue that deserves more of our community’s attention.

Sep 27, 2023 • 2h 12min
Asexual Representation: Sex Education Was GOOD, Actually!?
We famously disliked the less than 5 minutes of screen time that Florence’s Ace plot line got, but Sex Education season 4 introduced an entirely new Asexual character by the name of O, so it’s time to ask the question: Did the show redeem itself!?

Sep 20, 2023 • 2h 2min
The Journey of Being Mixed Race and Ace in STEM ft. Sarah Cosgriff
Today we explore the intersections of science, sexuality, and identity with science communicator, Sarah Cosgriff. Learn about the complexities of being mixed race, the intricacies of the ace community, the importance of LGBTQ+ inclusion in STEM, and SO much more!

Sep 13, 2023 • 58min
Asexuality in Manga: Mine-kun is Asexual, I Want to be a Wall, & Doughnuts Under a Crescent Moon
Today we’ve got an Ace rep 3-for-1! Royce walks us through the Asexual representation in Mine-kun is Asexual, I Want to be a Wall, & Doughnuts Under a Crescent Moon.

Sep 6, 2023 • 1h 3min
What The HECK are “Beige Flags”!?
Promise this was a relevant topic when we recorded it ages ago. Although the conversation may be fashionably late, we hope you will enjoy it all the same!

Aug 30, 2023 • 1h 14min
POTS, Fencing, and One For All ft. Lillie Lainoff
Author Lillie Lainoff discusses her journey as a fencer with POTS and her book, One For All, which incorporates chronic illness & Ace representation. They talk about the connection between chronic illness and fencing, navigating gender gaps in sports, their experiences with physical challenges and sword canes, and a funny anecdote about pulling a sword on Mormons. They also share stories about living in a rundown trailer park and the importance of libraries and librarians.

Aug 23, 2023 • 53min
Jessica Rabbit: Femme Fatale or Asexual Icon?
Today we discuss the iconic 1988 film “Who Framed Roger Rabbit”, spotlighting Jessica Rabbit. Is she a classic example of a femme fatale or is she secretly a misunderstood Asexual character way ahead of her time? After all, she’s not “bad”. She’s just drawn that way.

Aug 16, 2023 • 1h 58min
Crafting Asexual and Disabled Characters in Historical Fiction ft. Carly Heath
Today we’re joined by Carly Heath, author of The Reckless Kind, to discuss writing asexual and disabled characters in historical fiction. Other themes we discuss include queer-platonic relationships, veganism, fanfiction, and even hair jewelry!


