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This was originally part of my Sex Magic Playshop Series in my Reclaiming Your Eroticism Facebook group. Join my LIVE sex magic ritual (for womxn only) on Saturday February 15th at 7 pm EST. You can sign up for the ritual here AND you'll get added to the waitlist for my Solo Sex Magic Course which opens on Valentine's Day...you'll receive a $100 off coupon from being on the waitlist: http://bit.ly/ritualwaitlist Connect with me on Instagram here: https://instagram.com/amberleitz Join my private Facebook group for womxn only: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ryeplaygroup/

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/how-to-open-yourself-to-deep-fucking-thoroughly-get-off-during-penetration/ As you'll hear in this week's episode of the Reclaiming Your Eroticism podcast, I've had quite an interesting journey with vaginal sex over the years. It was only about five years ago now that penetration for me was my least favorite sexual activity, because it was either numb, painful or unfulfilling. I would often think to myself things like… I wish he'd hurry up and finish When will it be over so I can roll over and go to sleep or finish watching that episode on Netflix? Is this really all there is? Is this how sex is going to be for the rest of my life? Is THIS it? What's wrong with me? Why am I so broken? Sex doesn't feel that good and I can't orgasm with him… If you're feeling any of this, know that you're not alone AND it's not permanent. Penetration is literally my favorite thing now…it feels so orgasmic…(never thought I'd be saying that!) and I can't wait to share some of what's helped me so you can try it out for yourself, play around and see what works for you. In this episode I talk about… Why vaginal sex has been so deeply fulfilling and pleasurable for me lately and how you can start to cultivate it in your own sex life Erotic rituals and sexual practices you can do in a practical way to open yourself up to deeper fucking and thoroughly get off from penetration What I mean by getting off during penetration and how it's so much deeper than what you probably think it is My journey with vaginal penetration and the exact tools, rituals and practices I've used to go from feeling under-fucked, numb and unfulfilled sexually to being deeply fucked, pleasured and fulfilled The surprising elements to experiencing deep fucking and lovemaking How to figure out what you need to have met before you can truly open yourself up to this level deep penetration Why deep fucking is also called "core fucking" and how it helps you become more connected to your truth, authentic erotic expression and soul This podcast is explicit and NSFW so make sure to put on headphones or do what you need to do to listen with pleasure, comfort and safety. There are a lot of F*CKS dropped in this episode. You've been warned. Thanks for listening and enjoy, lover… Want to join my erotic email community and get my FREE 4-part Reclaiming Your Eroticism video series? Sign up here and you'll get it instantly! (plus a few audio rituals like erotic breathwork, an erotic body response fantasy meditation to figure out what really turns you on and MORE). http://amberleitz.com/reclaim WANT TO GO DEEPER? In my 9-week course, Jade Egg Sexual Mastery, you'll learn the erotic tools and sexual practices centered around the 5,000 year old Taoist jade egg practice, which will help you gently release shame and trauma, connect back to your eroticism, pleasure and desires AND create a soft, toned, strong yet supple pussy that is open and receptive to deeper fucking and orgasm. This is my last time ever offering this program as I'm phasing out of selling, teaching and working with the jade egg (professionally, but not personally) so that I can journey into the erotic unknown and excavate my next body of work. Right now there is a pre-sale price of $200 off if you join Jade Egg Sexual Mastery by Monday January 20th at 6 pm EST. https://amberleitz.teachable.com/p/jadeeggsexualmastery I'd love for you to SUBSCRIBE on iTunes and leave me a review — it will help the podcast get out. Subscribe on iTunes: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recl…st/id1085118625 Connect with me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/amberleitz/

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/expanding-your-erotic-capacity-getting-off-on-your-shame-finding-pleasure-through-contraction/ I woke up on Sunday morning feeling my inner erotic muse yearning for me to share, speak out loud and express the erotic experience I had the night before during a partnered Erotic Play Date with Andy (aka a sex date). I was snuggled up next to Scarlet that morning trying to sleepily shake off the urge to get up and record a podcast, hoping to ignore it for a "better time." My inner erotic muse is quite the seductress and I realized it was pointless trying to fight or subdue her for a more convenient time. She wanted to express herself NOW. The words for this podcast episode started to move through me, calling me to take action. So I did. I was staying at Andy's parent's house so I had to sit out in my car (in winter...talk about devotion) for some privacy and quietude. I intended for this to be only about 15 minutes long, but it just kept pouring out of me. In this episode I talk about... Two moments during sex with Andy where I felt shame pushing my erotic edges...and I had to decide whether to expand or contract How to find pleasure in pain and contraction How to get right with and get off on your shame, shadows and contraction The spiral or descent into contraction and how to work with the layers of contraction for expanding your ability to receive, handle and hold MORE erotic energy, pleasure, sensation and orgasmic potential What Andy said to me that turned me on AND repulsed me at the same time...making me think "why the fuck do I like this?"...and... How I transmuted the shame that came up around my kinky nature during sex into full approval and turn on Why contraction is a sign of your erotic edge and how you can gently push your limits Understanding your limits during sex and how to feel safe and resourced enough to know when to push your limit or honor your limit Sign up for my 4-Part Reclaiming Your Eroticism Video Series: amberleitz.com/reclaim Join my free 7-Day Org*smic Pleasure Challenge here: http://www.amberleitz.com/challenge/ Doors to my 6-week self pleasure program all about taking your pleasure and orgasm into a deep vaginal and whole body experience, Orgasmic Pleasure, are open until Friday 12/27 Midnight EST. http://www.amberleitz.com/op/ I'd love for you to SUBSCRIBE on iTunes and leave me a review — it will help the podcast get out. Subscribe on iTunes: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recl…st/id1085118625 Connect with me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/amberleitz/

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/the-art-of-subtle-pleasure-why-it-actually-brings-you-even-more-erotic-pleasure/ Yesterday I was doing my erotic morning ritual–which involved a sensual grape eating, self seduction experience and some erotic breathwork–when this podcast episode started to flow through me. Normally I try to record podcasts when I'm alone, but Scarlet was home with me and this couldn't wait…because the erotic energy and creative inspiration for this episode was flowing through me…so you'll get to hear her playing in the background occasionally. What's so special about what I want to share with you in this week's podcast episode? I was practicing something yesterday morning that I teach in my Orgasmic Pleasure course for womxn (which opens soon), which is the art of enjoying subtle pleasure. Subtle pleasure is incredibly understated. I get it. We're all seeking the big forms of pleasure…especially climax and multiple, toe-curling, screaming orgasms. I love all of that too AND I find that the art of subtle pleasure allows me to experience, feel and allow even more pleasure. The more I refine my pleasure senses and attune myself to my erotic energy, the more pleasure I create…or rather, feel…in my body. The more pleasure begins to awaken beneath the layers of contraction, shame, trauma, fear, conditioning and blocked erotic energy or emotions. Subtle pleasure is like doing a hip circle in the most slow, micro-movement way that is almost undetectable to the naked eye. Or my favorite…doing pelvic rocks during breathwork that feel so exquisitely orgasmic from within my hips because I can feel every single micro-movement…but if someone was watching me do my breathwork, they probably wouldn't notice the subtle, barely-there movement of my hips as I do the sensual pelvic rocking. It's like refining my pleasure experience so deeply that instead of having to go outside of myself to generate or create pleasure, I just turn my inner gaze inside and tap into the endless stream of erotic energy, sensation and pleasure that already lives inside of me. And I feel every single inch of pleasure moving through me…now THAT is orgasmic! I'm all about learning to live a deeply erotic life, experiencing more sensuality and not just having orgasms (which are fucking amazing), but also becoming orgasmic. We go deep into the art of subtle pleasure, what it really means, why it actually opens you up to more pleasure and how you can bring it into your daily life and your erotic experiences in this episode. Join my free 7-Day Org*smic Pleasure Challenge here: http://www.amberleitz.com/challenge/ I'd love for you to SUBSCRIBE on iTunes and leave me a review — it will help the podcast get out. Subscribe on iTunes: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recl…st/id1085118625 Connect with me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/amberleitz/

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/how-to-create-an-erotic-partnership-featuring-my-lover-andy/ In today's episode of the RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM PODCAST, I'm featuring a very special guest -- my lover and partner Andy! We have an open, honest and sexy conversation about our relationship, our sex life, how we create an erotic partnership and we also answer some of your questions that were submitted for us. I'm so excited to share him with you in this episode and we had so much fun recording this intimate conversation. We explore things in this juicy podcast episode like... What I expected my relationship with Andy to be like in the beginning vs what actually happened How to communicate to your partner that you want to go on an erotic journey together or improve your sex life together How we handle our emotions coming up in our relationship and during sex The sexy practice I do that helps me communicate with Andy or let go of anger towards him (he was surprised that I do this haha) How we make time for sex with a 14-month old toddler How each of us gives and receives love or makes the other person feel loved How to navigate mismatched libidos in your relationship What Andy thinks about the work that I do and how he really feels about how much I show and share online How we deal with stagnancy and sameness in our relationship Our thoughts on fantasizing about others outside of our relationship Why we prioritize our sex life using Erotic Play Dates Sign up for my 4-Part Reclaiming Your Eroticism Video Series: amberleitz.com/reclaim Doors close for my 12-week group coaching program for womxn Deeply Erotic on November 26th at Midnight EST: amberleitz.com/de I'd love for you to SUBSCRIBE on iTunes and leave me a review — it will help the podcast get out. Subscribe on iTunes: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recl…st/id1085118625 Connect with me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/amberleitz/

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/are-you-hiding-who-you-are-in-the-bedroom/ In today's episode of the RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM PODCAST, we're exploring all of the ways that you might be hiding who you truly are in the bedroom… This could be the literal ways that you hide like only having sex if the lights are off or not letting your partner see you naked…or avoiding your own naked body in the mirror. I did that one for years so you're not alone if that's you. It could also be the metaphorical ways you hide by not telling your partner what you really desire in the bedroom, hiding your sexual fantasies and sexual shadows from them or stuffing your emotions down if they come up during sexual play. Let me just say, I used to be an expert at hiding. I'm still pretty adept at it…to the point where sometimes I don't even realizing I'm hiding. I might be hiding a certain archetype or energy that comes up (like the slut or seductress — those are big ones for me), hiding a desire or fantasy from him, hiding my emotions and continuing on with sex when I don't really want to or hiding my face by only doing certain sex positions if I'm afraid of being seen that intimately. This theme of hiding who we are in the bedroom really started to come in for me when I was about 9 months pregnant and my partner and I had only been living together in the house we bought for like a month. There were some patterns coming up for me that made me realize I had some interesting sexual shadows simmering beneath the surface and I was hiding things from myself and Andy. Things like… My fear of owning my seductress My relationship with knowing he was masturbating and some fucked up beliefs I had about that Shutting down during sex a lot and feeling weirdly objectified, especially as I navigated the transition to motherhood AND still being an erotic woman Still allowing penetration when I wasn't interested or ready just to have the intimacy and connection Feeling awkward about how to communicate or share certain desires with him This is a pretty raw and real episode where I share a lot about the ways in which I've hidden in past relationships, with Andy and even in my business as an erotic coach! You definitely don't want to miss it. Sign up for my 4-Part Reclaiming Your Eroticism Video Series: http://amberleitz.com/reclaim I'd love for you to SUBSCRIBE on iTunes and leave me a review — it will help the podcast get out. Subscribe on iTunes: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recl…st/id1085118625 Connect with me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/amberleitz/

Sex Magic Secrets of a Real Life Sex Witch & How to Embody Your Inner Sex Witch Through Sex Magic LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/sex-magic-secrets-of-a-real-life-sex-witch-how-to-embody-your-inner-sex-witch-through-sex-magic/ In today's episode of the RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM PODCAST, I'm diving deep into all things sex magic… I really just wanted to hit record and talk openly about my experience with sex magic, because it's one of my favorite topics and rituals. It's a lifestyle and a path for me, which I share more about in the episode. This episode is all about my personal sex magic secrets as a real life sex witch (I have the best job ever!) and how you, too, can embody your own inner sex witch through the ritual of sex magic. We dive into… What a sex witch means to me & why I consider myself one The physical signs of remembering or recognizing your ancient sex witch power Revealing my biggest sex magic secret to you that will help you remember your power Some of my most powerful & effective sex magic rituals My first time leading a group of friends through sex magic in person Why some of my sex magic rituals didn't work in the beginning Why sexual shadow integration is necessary when doing sex magic Why there's often a divide between what you think you want and what you really want What I've used sex magic for & what you can use it for How to raise power and sexual energy for your sex magic rituals so they're guaranteed to unfold Playful ways to do sex magic & how to create your own rituals And more! I'd love for you to SUBSCRIBE on iTunes and leave me a review — it will help the podcast get out. Subscribe on iTunes: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/recl…st/id1085118625 Download my FREE Solo Sex Magic ebook here: http://amberleitz.com/sex-magic Connect with me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/amberleitz/

Why We Fear Our Sexuality and 3 Erotic Rituals For Reclaiming Your Eroticism LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/why-we-fear-our-sexuality-and-3-erotic-rituals-for-reclaiming-your-eroticism/ This is an exciting day…a day I've been waiting for for about two years now. It's the RE-RELEASE of my podcast! If you've been around my erotic community for the past few years (if you're new — welcome…come in and sit for an erotic spell), then you know that my original podcast was called the Sensually Embodied Woman. That honestly no longer resonates with me and with the core of my work, especially as I deepen my focus on guiding womxn and femmes on a journey to remembering, reclaiming and fully unleashing their erotic nature, power and pleasure. This includes diving deep into shedding sexual shame, overcoming trauma, integrating sexual shadows and erotically taboo desires and using the liberated erotic energy that exists beneath the shame, trauma and hidden sexual shadows to CREATE what you desire. The podcast is now called RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM and in each erotic transmission (aka episode), we'll dive deep into topics like… How to release sexual shame & trauma Sex magic Sexual shadow work & integration of your deepest erotic desires & taboo fantasies Bringing your FULL erotic self into your relationship to create an erotic partnership & have shameless, uninhibited sex Erotic rituals to bring into your day to stay connected to your eroticism The jade egg and going deep into the sexual unconscious using your vagina as a through line and path of doing so Embodied erotic movement and dance Sex witchery and the merging of eroticism and witchcraft (witch to me just means being someone who is owning their power, uniting their unconscious mind with their conscious mind by doing deep shadow work, doing deep work to heal and being empowered) How to remember, reclaim, come home to and fully unleash your erotic nature, power and pleasure AND SO MUCH MORE! In honor of the re-release of RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM, the first episode will be a deep dive into WHY we fear our sexuality… I share some very valuable information about our deepest fears around our erotic nature AND once we've excavated those fears…what do we do about it? I'll be sharing three rituals you can do to reclaim your eroticism, release the fear and take your erotic power back. I hope you enjoy! I'd love for you to SUSBCRIBE on iTunes and leave me a review — it will help the podcast get out. Subscribe on iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/reclaiming-your-eroticism-podcast/id1085118625 This podcast is explicit and NSFW so make sure to put on headphones or do what you need to do to listen with pleasure, comfort and safety. I'm working some things out with the audio so there were a few bumpy parts, but the audio moving forward should be much more clear and concise. Thanks for listening and enjoy, lover… Get my Erotic Ritual Breathwork HERE: http://amberleitz.com/breathwork Connect with me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amberleitz/

Watch/read on the blog for full resources: http://www.amberleitz.com/sex-after-trauma-rachael-maddox Support Rachael's 'Sex After Trauma' book Kickstarter: bit.ly/sexaftertraumabook Download my free resources here: http://www.amberleitz.com/free-resources/ Follow my erotic adventures on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amberleitz/ Join my 1900+ private Facebook group for women only: bit.ly/sensuallyembodiedwoman ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you've ever found yourself hating, fearing or dreading sex, then I have a very juicy treat for you - an erotic conversation with Rachael Maddox that may very well begin to change the trajectory of your whole life, especially your sexual life. This conversation may only change your life a little bit, but it will definitely be powerful. It changed something for me and I was the one interviewing her. This is something every single woman needs to know and was by far one of my favorite conversations ever. I had Rachael on my podcast earlier this year and she continues to blow me away with her fierce, yet gentle and sensual spirit. She's bringing a very important message to the women of the world: sex after trauma. Many women that I speak to or work with in my courses or coaching have experienced some kind of trauma, myself included. It can be scary to think about having sex or experiencing pleasure (both sensual and sexual) after experiencing some kind of traumatic event, regardless of who or what caused the trauma. Rachael shared so beautifully in this conversation and I found myself being opened, encouraged and invited to see things with a new perspective. I could literally feel some of my deep wounds and old beliefs coming to light as we were talking. A few ancient pieces snapped into place within me as we went deeper into our discussion around sexual trauma and why sex after trauma is such a key piece in a woman's erotic and sensual journey. You're definitely not going to want to miss this episode. I was surprised and delighted so much throughout this conversation and I felt my heart opening in new ways that can only happen when you allow yourself to be held in the love of a woman who has been there. In this podcast episode Rachael and I discuss: Signs that you may be experiencing sexual trauma in your body Why she's focusing on sex after trauma How to begin experiencing sex & pleasure again after trauma What a sexual shadow is (I was totally surprised & blown away by Rachael's share) How to practice saying no to reduce anxiety in the bedroom & life (Rachael leads me through a rather vulnerable, but super powerful practice) And soooo much more!

Watch on the blog for full resources: www.amberleitz.com/rachael-maddox/ Download the Jade Egg Sexual Mastery ebook: www.amberleitz.com/jade-egg-ebook/ Join my private Facebook group for women: www.bit.ly/sensuallyembodiedwoman Connect with me on Instagram www.instagram.com/amberleitz/ Last year I stumbled upon an amazing woman and her book, Secret Bad Girl, which helped me heal a part of myself that I hadn't expected to face. My own inner archetype of the secret bad girl. This woman who initiated me into looking at my secret bad girl is Rachael Maddox. My secret bad girl had unknowingly been longing to be seen, heard and accepted fully so this book came into my life at the perfect time. She was begging for my attention, but I wasn't listening. Until I gave her a voice. Until I listened to her, saw her, witnessed her. Until I was willing to play with her, dance with her, hold her, soothe her, give her my love and attention. If you've been struggling with a part of you that feels like she's bad, dirty, naughty, unwelcome, slutty, misbehaving or needs to be a "good girl" and "behave" then you're going to love this episode of the podcast. I remember back in the day always being told things like this... Pull your shirt down! Pull your pants up! Stop pulling your dress up! Stop touching yourself like that! Close your legs! Sit like a lady! Be a good girl! Behave! Sit down, be quiet, hush up! Can you relate? Deep down we all have different aspects of our sexuality and sometimes our erotic innocence can be misused, abused, manipulated or encouraged to be hidden, changed or repressed. This is where the concept of Secret Bad Girl comes in and I'm so excited that Rachael and I got to talk about this. Here's what we dive into in this juicy conversation: How to connect with your Secret Bad Girl & surprisingly what she needs from you How you can bring love & attention to her in a way that she actually needs How to use your secret bad girl to heal & release trauma What it takes to become a grown goddess (plus some yummy practices to help you!) What trauma is & how to begin healing it on a body level How you might be caught under a "trauma spell"