Speak The Truth

Episode Summary:Curtis takes time to Demystify PTSD by removing the D out of it. It’s not an abnormal reaction to normal life, but it’s really a normal response to really extreme and difficult circumstances. PTSD is severely misunderstood, and in this episode Curtis offers a robust understanding to the nature and scope of PTSD. Episode Notes: How do we demystify PTSD?  With the Counselee, helping them understand what’s going on physiologically and spiritually as far as what they're facing because the body naturally responds to trauma, and the physiological implications of fight or flight that is associated with fear.  This isn’t just a military issue.  First responders experience a lot of trauma, as well as familial experiences and events. People respond to trauma differently, and there are a lot of factors that play into manifestations of trauma. Pre traumatic factors involves a lot around how one grew up, experiences, core beliefs, worldview, etc. All of these factors play into the way someone responds to suffering, hardship, and trauma.  Peri Traumatic - how are you responding to suffering, what was actually going on in the event itself, what happened to me, was it something I did, who was involved, etc.  Where to start with a PTSD case, first develop trust. Going into the time with humility, and ask good questions.  Ways for churches to best minister to those struggling with PTSD Disassociation, removing yourself from reality and entering back into a traumatic scenario.  Show Resource Mentions:Biblical Counseling Coalition 15:14 PodcastMighty Oaks Warrior ProgramDemystifying PTSDGarrett Higbee

Jonathan discusses his heart behind his book, "Counsel for Couples: A Biblical and Practical Guide for Marriage Counseling", and as a pastor and biblical counselor, discusses the need for the local church to have marriage counseling available in the local church. He expresses the urgency for the local church to have a "culture of care" and to promote preventative ministries. This book is unique because it could be used for lay leaders, church leaders, and leadership development....A must have resource! A Few Points: There isn’t really anything available that speaks directly to lay people, church leaders who could use it as a resource., user friendly, helpful as soon as you pick it up. Using this book for leadership development would be extremely useful.Fieldstone grew outside of the church. Pastors move from scripture to life and counselors are trying to move from life to scripture. - For pastors who are preaching week to week;  if you’re trying to move from Scripture to life, all counseling is, is moving from life to scripture.Don’t counsel alone, bring others in with you. Reduplicate yourselves. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. Promote  preventative ministries. Resources From Episode" Park Side churchFieldstone CounselingBiblical Counseling CoalitionCounsel for Couples 

Greg Wilson discusses the nature and scope of “Domestic Violence”, defined and explained.  The church hasn’t done well in this category of ministry.  Desecrating the image of God in another person. Where man has perverted the dominion that God gave man to rule and subdue the earth, but in man’s sinful state, he corruptly exerts power through violence.  Definition: the desecration of the image of God  through patterns of intentionally misusing power overtly or covertly in words or actions to gratify self.  We need to engender a little more fear in the church to reveal the reality and frequency of it.  Indicators of possible abuse Broadly, dominates control of emotional liberty, limiting relationships, finances,   elements of control. Gas lighting -  convincing the other spouse that they’re crazy, and thus gaining control over the other person. Colloquially, crazy making.   Triangulating tactics towards the counselor in counseling done through the perpetrator in counseling, so domestic abuse is happening in real time in the counseling session. Covert abuse. In domestic abuse cases, the counselor, if not careful, can sound like the abuser by telling the victim what they need to do.  Safety planing;  Short term plans Long term plans    In counseling, we need to help rescuing the oppressed, God did! In the church, we need to be rescuing the oppressed, not encouraging the them to stay in that situation.  Church; care before you correct on these domestic abuse cases.  Episode References:Soul Care AssociatesBrad HamBrick  Chris MolesDarby StricklandAssociation of Biblical CounselorsThe Village Church 

Show Notes: Paul  Tripp discusses his heart behind his recent book release on suffering, “Suffering: gospel hope when life doesn’t make sense”, which was largely due to his own recent experiences in suffering through acute renal failure. Listen as Paul shares the nature of suffering and our response to it. "Tweetable Tripp one-liners" from the episode  Suffering is spiritual warfare Suffering isn’t neutral, we never come to suffering empty;  we don’t suffer the thing your suffering, you suffer the way your suffering the thing your suffering.  We have a dark ability to trouble our own trouble.   Our bad theology is making a mess of our suffering.  God doesn’t need us to be healthy to use us; that’s a human way of thinking.  The move of grace is not from dependency to independency, but the move of grace is from independence to dependence.   We’re afraid to be honest and transparent because we don’t believe the gospel.  As Christians, we should be able to be the most honest community on the on the earth. As christians we struggle with believing the now-ism of the goepl of Jesus Christ. As christians, we need to stop having cosmetic relationships. God makes his invisible grace visible  by sending people of grace to give grace to people who need grace, that’s how it works, modeling that incarnational  living. Our weakness is God’s workroom. Episode Resource Links:Paul Tripp  Ministries - New Morning Mercies   Paul Tripp App 

Show Resources:  John Frame : Systematic Theology An Introduction to the Christian Faith  Tim Challies - Visual Theology Extravagant GraceBiblical Counseling Basics

Episode Notes:As believers, we’re counseling from a very different location than the secular person. The secular world counsels to the ego, a man-centered location. Whereas, the believer is being counseled from a theocentric perspective, a God-centered perspective on life. In order to know ourselves, we must know the God of scripture. We cannot truly know ourselves, unless we know God. Hence, being made is God’s image, Gen. 1.26-27. A right understanding of this helps us to think through reasoning our circumstances from God downward to us instead of reasoning upward to God. Our theology matters when we begin to ask questions to interpret the why behind our pain and suffering. In other words, the Omni’s of God’s attributes; his omnipresence, omnipotence, and omniscience, has everything to do with our circumstances and response. Show References:Jeremy Lelek’s book: Biblical Counseling BasicsColossians 1.13; Deuteronomy 29:29; Proverbs 3:5-6 St. Augustine: The City of GodEric Johnson's God & Soul Care: The Therapeutic Resources of the Christian FaithJohn Calvin: Institutes of the Christian ReligionA.W. Tozer: knowing God Jay Adams: Competent to CounselDavid Powlison - Christian Counseling Education Foundation Thomas Brooks: Precious Remedies Against Satan's Devices

Show Description: Jeremy concludes the discussion regarding biblical counseling and its implications on the local church. He demonstrates from Ephesians 4:11-16, that equipping the Saints for the work of the ministry has immediate implications on the church’s ability to equip the believers for one another ministry even to the extent of intensive discipleship, which is biblical counseling.  Is there a difference between discipleship and counseling?  We’re convinced that there isn’t much difference in terms of the believers responsibility to minister to one another. Discipleship can be viewed categorically; there is intentional discipleship, leading believers to know God’s Word, growing in their knowledge and grace of God. And then intensive discipleship and corrective discipleship, where it’s issue specific or topically specific. Then corrective, where sin is involved towards God and one another. All of this is in the scope biblical counseling and discipleship.    Jeremy in the urgency to one another well with our brothers and sisters in Christ, reminds us that if we’re not barring their burdens, they’re getting help from the secular world that isn’t producing gospel-centered responses to what they're going through. Our culture is overly psychologized and if we’re continuing in our passivity and not being intentional with our neighbor, we’re not presenting a gospel that really saves. Like Eph. 4:14, modern psychology has a doctrine, and it’s humanistic. Look at the self-help section in book stores or literary genres online, it's “me-istic”. Let's push to get biblical counseling back in our local church!! Show References: Jeremy's Book: Biblical Counseling Basics: its Roots, beliefs, and future Quote Cited: “genuine biblical counseling cannot be effectively practice in isolation from the church.” pg.167 Scripture focus: Ephesians 4:11-14Paul Tripp: Your Walk with God is a Community ProjectSociety Life Magazine: Everyday Counselor Piece Robby Gallaty: Replicate MinistriesAssociation of Biblical Counselors: Equipped To Counsel

In this episode, Jeremy provides a distinction between “Christian counseling”, and Biblical Counseling, their theories and methodologies. And then an historical survey of soul care from the time of St. Augustine, Thomas Aquinas, The Puritans acute knowledge and awareness of soul care, to Martin Luther, and through the modernist movement that pioneered the scope of modern psychology as we know it today, and then provides the state of urgency for the local church today. Episode Links:Jeremy Lelek's Book - Biblical Counseling BasicsSt Augustine - brief autobiographyThomas Aquinas - brief autobiographyMartin Luther - Bondage of the will Richard Baxter - The Christian DirectoryModernist Movement:  Wilhelm Wundt, Sigmund Frued, Carl RogersDavid Powlison - 2nd Generation Biblical Counseling Movement (please pray for David, he has cancer)Paul Tripp - 2nd Generation Biblical Counseling MovementInstruments in The Redeemer's Hands: Love, Know, Speak, Do

In this episode, our hosts take time to introduce themselves; their personal lives, ministry lives, and church lives. They share their journey’s of following Jesus and how The LORD has used their lives to impact others. Mike & Shauna talk about their early years of marriage and struggles, work and career paths, and God's Sovereign plan in their lives. The founding of Truth Renewed Ministries. Jeremy shares God's early hand in bringing about his family, his pathway for his profession as a licensed professional counselor and founder of Metroplex Counseling & Association of Biblical counselors. The Hosts talk a little about the current climate of biblical counseling and the local church's need to respond proactively to the need of their people and realizing this a gospel issue, and therefore, a discipling issue. 

In this episode, one of the hosts', Mike Van Dyke, reveals who will be co-hosting with him to provide a weekly podcast to edify the local church in biblical counseling and discipleship. Speak The Truth will consist of three host; Mike & Shauna Van Dyke, founders of Truth Renewed Ministries, a biblical counseling ministry. And they'll be joined with co-host, Jeremy Lelek, President of Association of Biblical counselors and Metroplex Counseling. In this trailer, Mike shares what the nature of the podcast will be, and encourages the local church to stay tuned as they begin to bring weekly podcast for the edification of the local church.