Outlier's Edge Podcast with Niiamah Ashong

Niiamah Ashong
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Jul 4, 2019 • 17min

Real-time calibration for powerful leadership-> people pleaser to Pioneer leader

Listen to the full episode here https://nemoashong.com [Real-time calibration for powerful leadership-> people pleaser to Pioneer leader] I recently had a conversation with a business owner exploring potential partnerships. Mid-way through the conversation (literally 45 mins into it), I realized that I was spending my energy and our time trying to position myself in a way that would impress, make her feel I would be a valuable asset, and come across as an expert she want to work with. The worst part is that I’m good at that, which meant I’d be getting pulled in for "opportunities" I didn’t really want. AND she wouldn’t consider me for the types of projects that actually align with me and my highest value and values. I had spent 45 mins slipping into a persona based not on who I was but rather who I felt she wanted me to be! More on the leadership strategies I used to navigate myself to a place that now has us exploring business opportunities that actually serve the people we want in ways that align with what we’re about in the video. -- One of the biggest challenges for Pioneer leaders is settling for people pleasing rather than authentic servant leadership. It makes sense: we’re multi -talented, multi-passionate, energetic and empathetic leaders. Part of what allows us to pursue these talents and passions amongst varied groups and people is our empathetic ability to pick up on what we feel others want to hear, give them that, and then use micro- indicators in body language, words, tone, and energy to guide us on what’s "right" in the conversation. That’s people-pleasing 101 and a tool I’ve used over and over as a leader to feel "accepted" and to "build connection". However, there are levels of leadership that go beyond acceptance, connection, and pleasing which include belonging, relationship, and serving. Have you caught yourself building a true and yet at the same time inauthentic image of yourself while trying to make a good impression? Lets talk about how you can make the shift from people pleaser to servant leader mid-conversation/relationship through the video and comments below. Choose to take it from information and motivation to application and transformation at an upcoming Unapologetically You group leadership exploration: Virtual exploration: https://Empjoyment.com/uyvirtual2 In-person exploration: https://Empjoyment.com/uysing poss Watch and Subscribe on YouTube for more resources for your Pioneer Leadership journey: https://empjoyment.com/youtube
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Jul 3, 2019 • 11min

Take Action before Action

Listen to the full episode here https://empjoyment.com Clarity before action Proof before action Research before action Quality before action Perfection before action Confidence before action What holds us back from experiencing World Joy (1) Watch and Subscribe on YouTube for more resources for your Pioneer Leadership journey: https://empjoyment.com/youtube
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Jul 2, 2019 • 19min

I’d rather get it wrong publicly than get it right privately.

Listen to the full episode here https://nemoashong.com Tl;dw: I’d rather get it wrong publicly than get it right privately. Themes : pretending, hiding, leading through vulnerability #pioneerleadership #WorldJoy Watch and Subscribe on YouTube for more resources for your Pioneer Leadership journey: https://empjoyment.com/youtube
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Jul 1, 2019 • 4min

Give yourself some grace this year!

Listen to the full episode here https://nemo.com Give yourself some grace this year! Watch and Subscribe on YouTube for more resources for your Pioneer Leadership journey: https://empjoyment.com/youtube
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Jun 30, 2019 • 33min

Leveraging the Unapologetic You to develop powerful relationships

Listen to the full episode here https://nemoashong.com Leveraging the Unapologetic You to develop powerful relationships Tl;dw Deepening relationships from Settler to Pioneer levels: Interactions ⤵️ Connections⤵️ Relationships - you can be surrounded by peopple and still be alone if you aren’t giving people a chance to get to know the real you / all of you - put this into practice for yourself at an upcoming Unapologetically You virtual exploration (apply for a spot: https://Empjoyment.com) Watch and Subscribe on YouTube for more resources for your Pioneer Leadership journey: https://empjoyment.com/youtube
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Jun 29, 2019 • 22min

Welcome to Appreciation August 2018

Listen to the full episode here https://empjoyment.com Welcome to the #AppreciationAugust. Kickoff!! Here’s how to play! Watch and Subscribe on YouTube for more resources for your Pioneer Leadership journey: https://empjoyment.com/youtube
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Jun 28, 2019 • 15min

A Secret to Experiencing Joy

Listen to the full episode here https://empjoyment.com One of the biggest secrets to experiencing joy for yourself is by spreading joy to others! A really simple avenue for this is through *Appreciation*. Let’s experience #WorldJoy together right now by actively creating it in your world right now. The World Joy movement hereby declares the month of August as *Appreciation August*!!!! We’re about application over information, so let me share how you can participate in Appreciation August. 1) Let a different person each day know how much you appreciate them. 2) It should take you no less than one minute to express your sentiments of appreciation ABOUT THEM. Give them the gift of finding out more about themselves by sharing why you appreciate them as a person in your life - you can give examples to support afterwards. This is likely going to be the hardest part for people - both to give AND to receive. 3) share your appreciation you way- with a gift, a song, a letter, a drawing, a video, an act of service, an all-expense paid trip to a destination of their choice - I’m not going to limit you! Just make sure you actually convey what it is about them that you appreciate. Let’s share our experience of *receiving* appreciation from others using #appreciationaugust I’ll do my best to curate throughout the month as well. And feel free to get a head start now - you can seriously make a difference in someone’s life just be sharing your genuine appreciation. Watch and Subscribe on YouTube for more resources for your Pioneer Leadership journey: https://empjoyment.com/youtube
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Jun 27, 2019 • 10min

OWN it and Own YOU. It’s time to Be You Better!

Listen to the full episode here https://empjoyment.com OWN it and Own You. It’s time to Be You Better! Chances are you’re right: the thing you feel is holding you back right now from the levels of joy and satisfaction you want in life, work, and impact actually is! But just not for the reasons you think 🤔 (This was my first use of an emoji in post - history in the making) Watch and Subscribe on YouTube for more resources for your Pioneer Leadership journey: https://empjoyment.com/youtube
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Jun 26, 2019 • 14min

Power in a Name

Listen to the full episode here https://nemoashong.com There’s power in a name - please use it. Watch and Subscribe on YouTube for more resources for your Pioneer Leadership journey: https://empjoyment.com/youtube
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Jun 25, 2019 • 22min

My what: I help leaders experience joy in life and work!

Listen to the full episode here https://nemoashong.com My what: I help leaders experience joy in life and work! My how: through a combination of ongoing 1:1 coaching and group programs focused on helping each leader and the teams/communities/companies they lead to practice discovering, embracing, and leveraging all of what makes them amazing to contribute, collaborate, and create their joyful future. My why: to bring together a truly inclusive and empowered world where everyone gets to experience the joy of being celebrated and valued for their unique contributions to their world Watch and Subscribe on YouTube for more resources for your Pioneer Leadership journey: https://empjoyment.com/youtube

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