Conscious Kink with Ms. Elle X
Ms. Elle X
Although "Dominant" and "submissive" (Dom/sub) are often viewed as BDSM-exclusive, these terms fundamentally refer to a spectrum of naturally occurring strengths, traits, and expressions in every person and every relationship structure.That's why you'll find mind-blowing insights, powerful wisdom, and practical advice on leveraging your natural Dom, sub, or switch personality for ultimate personal empowerment and relational fulfillment in every episode! Subscribe to this podcast wherever you listen, and if you love what you hear, you can support future episodes and join these monthly Group Coaching sessions on patreon.com/ellexerotica!Cheers to dominating in every area of life and love! XOXO, Ms. Elle
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Feb 19, 2023 • 16min
Preventing Predictable BDSM Play
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a male Dominant create strategies to intensify play and deepen subspace with His 24/7 female slave.Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Feb 7, 2023 • 29min
Finding Your Femdom Voice
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a newbie female Dominant find her voice in order to correct Her submissive's passive-aggressive behaviors and shut down attempts at Topping from the bottom.Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Jan 28, 2023 • 20min
Developing Self-Love as a Female Dominant
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a female Dominant struggling with receiving service and pleasure discover Her desires and claim Her space as a sexually empowered woman.Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Jan 21, 2023 • 17min
Untangling Polyamory Knots in an Open Marriage
In this episode, Ms. Elle advises a Caregiver and His FemDom wife how to communicate and set appropriate boundaries with their submissives as they consider inviting a female little into their relationship.Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
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Jan 16, 2023 • 29min
Fixing Failing FemDom Rituals
Tackling the challenges of balancing a busy life with intimate relationships is at the forefront of the discussion. Love languages and emotional needs are explored, emphasizing open communication. Evening rituals are highlighted as key to maintaining connection amidst parenting duties. A reframing of busyness helps reshape perspectives on relationship dynamics. Finally, a playful dialogue in the kink community offers insights into affection, consent, and the complexities of support within relationships.
Nov 27, 2022 • 35min
Family Boundaries & Submissive Punishments
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a member of Her community with two goals: (1) how to set healthy boundaries with close family members to avoid feelings of violation, and (2) how to administer effective submissive punishments.Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Nov 20, 2022 • 22min
Training Communication in a Shy Submissive
In this episode, Ms. Elle helps a Dominant Caregiver create practical strategies to train His shy submissive to overcome her trauma and communicate in a healthy and effective way. Support the showSUPPORT THIS PODCAST | FOLLOW ON SOCIAL
Nov 13, 2022 • 38min
Rebuilding a Broken Dynamic
The hosts dive into the art of rebuilding trust in damaged relationships, discussing the shift from adversarial dynamics to nurturing friendship. They highlight the significance of emotional connections and mutual respect, introducing innovative concepts like 'love maps.' The episode emphasizes enhancing bonds through sensory experiences and the importance of presence. Listeners get practical advice on love languages and playful communication, all aimed at deepening intimacy while promoting joy and connection.
Nov 9, 2022 • 16min
Toxic Isolation or Healthy Domination?
Discover the critical differences between toxic isolation and healthy dominance in BDSM relationships. Explore the emotional intricacies of consent and the vital need for maintaining external connections. Delve into real-life concerns about newcomers entering the BDSM lifestyle, emphasizing safety and communication. Enjoy personal anecdotes that encourage engagement within the BDSM community, promoting a supportive environment for all participants.
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Oct 30, 2022 • 25min
The Spectrum of Submissive Expression
Kitten Ray, a talented videographer, shares her insights on the nuances of submissive expression and communication within her dynamic. The conversation explores the transition between playful and serious submission, emphasizing the importance of understanding for deeper connections. They discuss the interplay of honor and pleasure in BDSM, along with strategies for maintaining long-distance submissive relationships. The episode highlights the significance of patience and structured rituals, all while keeping the vibe engaging and playful.
