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The How to Succeed Podcast teaches the success principles and interpersonal communication skills needed to get to the top and stay there. We are dedicated to empowering life-long learners and ambitious entrepreneurs with options for growth they didn't know they had. Through our reinforcement training, we provide advanced communication techniques needed to excel, provide accountability in implementing behavior, and help nurture the attitudes necessary to reach the highest levels of success. Visit www.sandler.com for more information.
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Mar 2, 2026 • 40min
How To Succeed On the Road to Entrepreneurship
Podcast Summary This episode of the How To Succeed Podcast features watch entrepreneur Alan Tsao of the Tsao Baltimore Watch Company, tracing his journey from childhood fascination to launching a successful watch brand. After an initial manufacturing failure and losing early partners, Alan persisted, refined designs, leveraged mentorship, and achieved a breakout 2017 Kickstarter that far surpassed its goal via low-cost, gamified marketing. Tsao built trust with global manufacturers through in-person visits, grew through proactive behaviors and strategic partnerships (National Bohemian, McCormick Old Bay Seasoning, the Baltimore Ravens, the Baltimore Orioles, and the University of Maryland Athletic Dept.), and is developing notable projects like a Francis Scott Key Memorial Bridge watch - using actual bridge steel - with profits donated to victims' families after the fatal bridge disaster in March, 2024. Join us, as Alan emphasizes attitude, learning from failure, community-building, and advises aspiring entrepreneurs to take action and, "Just Do It". Chapter 1: Introduction to the How to Succeed Podcast 00:00:02 – 00:00:40 Dave Mattson frames the show's focus on the "success triangle" of attitudes, behaviors, and techniques. He sets expectations for peeling back how top performers think and act. Chapter 2: Meet the Guest and Topic 00:00:40 – 00:01:15 Host Chris McDonell welcomes guest Alan Tsao of Tsao Baltimore Watch Company and outlines the plan to explore Alan's entrepreneurial journey. Alan acknowledges the journey's challenges and rewards. Chapter 3: From Childhood Fascination to Passion Project 00:01:15 – 00:03:35 Alan traces his love of watches to a gift at age ten and explains his obsession with mechanical movements. As his career advanced, he built a 35–40 watch collection before deciding, with a nudge from his wife, to start designing his own watches. Chapter 4: Early Missteps and Losing Initial Partners 00:03:35 – 00:07:03 While working in property management, Alan looped in executives as early partners and sourced a manufacturer via a quick Google search. The first prototypes were low quality, scaring off his partners; he refunded them and bootstrapped forward, seeking advice from other microbrands to refine designs and supply chain. Chapter 5: Attitude—Learning From Failure and Pushing Forward 00:07:03 – 00:11:23 Prompted by Sandler's "attitude" lens, Alan reframes failure as learning rather than stopping. He emphasizes determination, confidence, and never giving up, aligning with the concept of "failing forward" to refine processes. Chapter 6: Breakthrough Kickstarter and Lean Marketing 00:11:23 – 00:14:58 After vastly improved prototypes, Alan launched a 2017 Kickstarter with a $45,000 goal, surpassing it in three hours and finishing at ~$115,000. He attributes traction to a $500–$800 gamified referral campaign that generated ~2,000 emails and ~25% conversion. Chapter 7: Global Sourcing and Trust-Building 00:15:13 – 00:17:57 Between 2017 and 2022, Alan traveled to Hong Kong and Switzerland to meet manufacturers. In-person relationships built trust, improved terms, and elevated product quality, strengthening credibility and operational know-how. Chapter 8: Going Full-Time, Investor Catalyst, and Hypergrowth 00:18:38 – 00:23:03 Weighing life choices post-Covid, Alan met an investor through a retail event who first commissioned 250 custom watches, then offered capital. After due diligence and valuation work, Alan accepted the deal, resigned, and the company grew 150–200% the following year. Chapter 9: Behavior—Showing Up Leads to Opportunity 00:23:03 – 00:23:53 Chris highlights the behavioral discipline of attending events and hustling while employed. Proactive behaviors, not chance, drove encounter-based breakthroughs and subsequent growth. Chapter 10: Strategic Partnerships—Natty Boh, Old Bay, Orioles, Ravens 00:23:53 – 00:27:47 Alan details collaborations beginning with National Bohemian via Instagram outreach and a fortuitous family contact leading to McCormick/Old Bay. Successive momentum earned projects with the Ravens and an official licensing partnership with the Orioles to cement local brand identity. Chapter 11: The Key Bridge Watch—Local Manufacturing and Giving Back 00:27:47 – 00:30:33 Tsao Baltimore is producing a watch using actual steel from the collapsed Francis Scott Key Bridge, with 85% of components made in Maryland. All profits support victims' families, while the project advances local manufacturing R&D. Chapter 12: Expanding into Education and Sports Memorabilia 00:30:21 – 00:34:27 As official timepiece of University of Maryland Athletics, Alan plans "class watch" programs for schools as an alternative to rings. He previews an Orioles initiative using player-worn jerseys as mystery watch dials with signed player cards, enabling community trading events. Chapter 13: Proudest Moments—First Sale and Family Validation 00:34:27 – 00:36:48 Alan recalls the emotional impact of the first full-price online sale. A second defining moment came when his young son said, "I'm proud of you, daddy," affirming the deeper family purpose behind the business. Chapter 14: Capabilities and Services at the New Workshop 00:36:48 – 00:37:24 The new facility houses certified watchmakers capable of servicing luxury brands, acting as a U.S. repair hub for jewelers and independent watch companies. Chapter 15: Advice to Aspiring Entrepreneurs 00:37:24 – end Drawing on his teaching at the University of Baltimore, Alan urges aspiring founders to start, learn by doing, and iterate through trial and error. He stresses overcoming comfort zones, accepting risk, and avoiding regret by taking the first step.

Feb 2, 2026 • 40min
How To Succeed at An Elite Level
Podcast Summary This episode of the How to Succeed Podcast features NFL Hall of Famer Rondé Barber discussing how preparation, consistency, adaptability, and humble leadership fueled his 16-year career, 215 consecutive starts, and post-football success in broadcasting and business. Rondé emphasizes daily incremental improvement, rigorous study translating to business "film prep," evolving the nickel corner role through responsibility and versatility, and the impact of mentors and coaches like Tony Dungy on building calm, steady, plan-driven teams. Join us as we learn key takeaways for sales and business leaders including, preparing deeply to create confidence, maintaining disciplined routines for consistency, and adapting to change to reinvent roles and achieve lasting results. Chapter 1: Opening and Guest Introduction 00:00:02 – 00:01:59 Dave Mattson, Executive Chairman of Sandler introduces the How to Succeed podcast's success triangle—Attitude, Behavior, and Technique—and frames the episode's theme: translating elite athletic performance to business. Jim Marshall presents guest Rondé Barber, highlighting his NFL legacy, leadership roles, and focus on preparation, consistency, adaptability, and professionalism. Chapter 2: Early Struggles and the Mindset Shift 00:01:59 – 00:05:41 Barber recounts a rocky NFL start, playing only one game his rookie season, and the doubt that fueled his drive. He connects lessons from redshirting in college and overcoming setbacks to a career-long mentality of outworking everyone and relentlessly improving. Chapter 3: Availability, Durability, and Discipline 00:05:41 – 00:08:38 Discussing his 215 consecutive starts, Barber cites "availability" as a critical ability, playing through pain, smart recovery modalities, and some luck in avoiding major injuries. He underscores the discipline to maintain routines and the motivation to never let someone else take his job. Chapter 4: Building Performance Routines and Incremental Gains 00:08:38 – 00:11:00 Barber outlines a philosophy that you are either getting better or worse each day. He describes daily incremental improvement—refining techniques, studying opponents, and analyzing himself—as a transferable approach for business professionals and even his daughters' pursuits. Chapter 5: Preparation = Opportunity 00:11:00 – 00:13:49 Barber explains how preparation creates the appearance of effortlessness, framing success as preparation married to opportunity. He applies this to broadcasting and event leadership: anticipate scenarios, study past outcomes, plan for contingencies, and be ready to execute. Chapter 6: Learning Broadcasting Through Reps and Mentorship 00:13:49 – 00:16:08 Transitioning to TV felt like being thrown into the deep end. Barber credits mentors like Dick Stockton, Chris Myers, and Kenny Albert for refining cadence and content. He emphasizes "time on task"—repetition, feedback, and reviewing successes and failures. Chapter 7: Opponent-Specific Prep and Strategic Familiarity 00:16:08 – 00:18:21 Using the Eagles as a case study, Barber shows how repeated matchups build a "dossier" for faster, deeper preparation. He leveraged familiarity to stay a step ahead, turning knowledge of how opponents targeted him into an advantage and producing standout performances. Chapter 8: Redefining the Nickel and Evolving the Tampa 2 Defense 00:18:21 – 00:22:19 Barber details how his agility and short-area quickness enabled expanding the nickel role from coverage to blitzing and run support, paralleling a linebacker at times. Collaborating with coaches, he helped evolve the Tampa 2 Defense into a widely emulated standard. Chapter 9: Culture of Earned Leadership 00:22:19 – 00:25:03 Reflecting on a roster of leaders, Barber highlights Hardy Nickerson's example and the team ethos: lead by example first, then grow vocally with experience. Leadership is earned through time, consistency, and relentless attention to detail. Chapter 10: Tony Dungy's Influence and Consistent Leadership 00:25:03 – 00:27:11 Barber praises Dungy's calm, consistent, and humane leadership, noting life lessons beyond football. Dungy's emphasis on community, family, and philanthropy shaped players' post-career success and instilled humble confidence. Chapter 11: The Role of Coaching and Unified Execution 00:27:11 – 00:28:48 Coaches provide the plan and alignment. Barber stresses the importance of everyone executing the same call—even if imperfect—because unity drives results. Coaching is the vessel that moves teams collectively toward goals. Chapter 12: Transitioning After Football 00:28:48 – 00:31:16 Barber credits his twin brother and peers like John Lynch for guiding his post-career path into broadcasting and business. He cautions that NFL careers are short, advocates planning for what's next, and notes his "Plan A or bust" focus until retirement opened new doors. Chapter 13: Values: Humility, Resilience, and No Excuses 00:31:16 – 00:33:52 Personal values—authenticity, humility, and resilience—anchor Barber's approach. He honors his mother's example in overcoming adversity and reiterates a locker-room mantra: no excuses, no explanations, maintaining competence through challenges. Chapter 14: Mentoring for Greatness 00:33:52 – 00:36:37 Barber illustrates the difference between good and great with a story about mentoring Aqib Talib. By pulling Talib into extra study and routines, he models the "extra mile" required for elite performance, just as veterans once did for him. Chapter 15: Valspar Championship and Community Impact 00:36:37 – 00:39:29 Barber promotes the Valspar Championship's community footprint, volunteer network, and charitable giving surpassing $53 million over 50 years. He highlights strong sponsorship, player affinity for the venue, and the sales efforts of "Copperheads" that power the event. Chapter 16: Key Takeaways and Closing 00:39:29 – 00:40:11 The episode closes with three actionable themes for business: preparation builds confidence, consistency separates performers, and adaptability enables reinvention. Barber adds that being uncommon—pursuing unique, sometimes unconventional paths—drives best-in-class results.

Jan 5, 2026 • 25min
How To Succeed at Relational Authority and the Power to Influence Internally
Podcast Summary Join us for an insightful exploration of the art of influencing people internally within organizations. In this episode, we are thrilled to welcome Sabine Gedeon, an esteemed executive advisor and speaker, as we dissect the concept of relational authority and its crucial role in building internal influence. Sabine emphasizes that mindset is 80% of success and highlights the significance of understanding your audience by stepping into their shoes. We uncover the challenges faced in internal negotiations, particularly in sales and HR, and the importance of aligning internal support to meet client needs. Discover how behaviors, attitudes, and techniques, encapsulated in the acronym BAT, are essential to enhancing influence and achieving success within an organization. Listen in as we emphasize the importance of preparation and strategic relationship-building to effectively influence stakeholders. By identifying key individuals who may challenge or support a proposed change, you can tailor your approach to align with their priorities. We discuss the use of tools like DISC to understand team members' perspectives and the impact of consistent behavior in building credibility and trust over time. Learn how nurturing internal networks and maintaining a reputation for thoroughness can significantly enhance your ability to gain support for initiatives. This episode provides actionable insights for overcoming resistance and achieving success by mastering the art of internal influence. (00:02) Influencing People Internally (10:22) Preparing to Influence Internally (00:02) Influencing People Internally This chapter explores the essential components of relational authority and the power to influence people internally within organizations. Joined by Sabine Gedeon, an executive advisor and speaker, we examine the critical role of mindset in successful influence. We discuss how understanding your audience and preparing for conversations by stepping into their shoes is vital for building influence. Sabine emphasizes that mindset constitutes 80% of success, and having the right attitude is crucial before any strategic execution. The conversation highlights the challenges people face in internal negotiations, especially in sales and HR, and the importance of aligning internal support to meet client needs. The focus is on behaviors, attitudes, and techniques, as embodied in the acronym BAT, and how these elements contribute to improving one's influence and success within an organization. (10:22) Preparing to Influence Internally This chapter explores the importance of preparation and strategic relationship-building in influencing stakeholders within an organization. I discuss the necessity of identifying key individuals who might challenge or support a proposed change, and how to align them with your goals. By understanding the perspectives of different team members, especially through tools like DISC, you can tailor your approach to address their priorities effectively. I also emphasize the significance of consistent behavior in building credibility and trust over time. By nurturing internal networks and maintaining a reputation for thoroughness, you can significantly enhance your ability to gain support for initiatives, making it clear that preparation is key to overcoming resistance and achieving success.

Dec 1, 2025 • 40min
How To Succeed at Being Authentic
Podcast Summary Anthony Vincent Bova, the brilliant mind behind the Edgework Method, joins us to unearth the true meaning of authenticity in sales. With his vast experience as a communications coach, Anthony shares his insights on how being genuinely present with customers can transform skeptical buyers into trusting clients. Throughout our conversation, we emphasize how authenticity isn't just a buzzword but a fundamental shift in how salespeople can build enduring relationships with their clients by being comfortable in their own skin. The episode also addresses the delicate balance between maintaining authenticity and meeting sales targets. Drawing intriguing parallels between acting and sales, we discuss how the pressure to perform often detracts from authentic client interactions. Anthony and I explore how self-imposed pressures and company expectations can lead to inauthentic behaviors, akin to an actor losing their emotional truth. The episode challenges salespeople to differentiate between "acting natural" and "being natural," proposing a focus on genuine relationship-building over performance metrics. Managers and leaders play a pivotal role in nurturing authenticity within sales teams, and this episode highlights the importance of creating safe, supportive environments. By encouraging conversations about emotions and focusing on understanding client needs, leaders can guide their teams toward more genuine connections with clients. In a heartfelt discussion between Anthony and his friend, Jim, we reflect on the power of gratitude and learning as twin pillars of personal and professional growth. This episode captures the spirit of collaboration and continuous improvement, inviting listeners to further explore authenticity in sales on the Sandler How to Succeed podcast. (00:02) Authenticity in Sales (13:35) Balancing Authenticity in Sales (25:41) Cultivating Authenticity in Sales Culture (39:43) Gratitude and Learning in Sales (00:02) Authenticity in Sales This chapter focuses on the concept of authenticity in sales, especially in a marketplace where buyers are increasingly skeptical. We explore how being genuine can foster trust and connect with customers on a human level while still achieving sales targets. I talk with Anthony Vincent Bova, founder of the Edgework Method, who shares insights from his experience as a communications coach. We discuss what it truly means to be authentic in sales beyond the buzzwords, emphasizing the importance of being present and connecting with customers. Anthony explains that authenticity is about being comfortable in one's own presence and that salespeople often struggle with it because they doubt that being themselves is enough. We also address how redirectional behaviors can mask insecurities, and we provide practical steps to maintain integrity in customer interactions. (13:35) Balancing Authenticity in Sales This chapter explores the challenge of maintaining authenticity in sales while under pressure to meet targets. By drawing a parallel between acting and sales, we highlight how the pressure to perform can shift focus away from genuine interactions with clients to simply meeting quotas. The discussion examines how self-imposed pressures and company expectations can lead to inauthentic behavior, similar to an actor losing their emotional truth under the demands of a film set. We also differentiate between "acting natural" and "being natural," illustrating how this distinction applies to both actors and salespeople. The conversation emphasizes the importance of focusing on authentic relationship-building rather than solely on performance metrics, using insights from acting to offer a fresh perspective on the sales process. (25:41) Cultivating Authenticity in Sales Culture This chapter focuses on the importance of authenticity in sales and the distinction between being self-conscious and selfless. We explore how selflessness—centered on understanding and addressing the client's needs—creates a genuine connection, allowing clients to feel heard. Authenticity, while potentially inherent, can also be cultivated through upbringing and intentional coaching. Managers and leaders play a crucial role in fostering authenticity by creating safe environments where team members can express themselves freely without fear of judgment. We emphasize the significance of emotional intelligence and the role of feelings in sales, encouraging managers to engage their teams in conversations about their emotions. By shifting focus from performance metrics to feelings, managers can help their teams grow into more authentic and effective salespeople. (39:43) Gratitude and Learning in Sales This chapter highlights a meaningful exchange between friends, Anthony and Jim, where gratitude and appreciation are at the forefront. We explore the importance of learning and personal growth through conversations, as Anthony expresses how each interaction with Jim offers new insights. We extend our heartfelt thanks to our listeners for their attention and participation, emphasizing the value of community and shared learning. This episode captures the spirit of collaboration and continuous improvement, and we look forward to future discussions that inspire and educate. Join us again for more insights on the Sandler How to Succeed podcast.

Nov 3, 2025 • 32min
How to Succeed at 10xing Your Sales Force and 20xing Your Sales
Podcast Summary Join us for an insightful conversation with Daniel Rosen from Renovo Financial as we explore the concept of the success triangle—attitudes, behaviors, and techniques—in scaling businesses. Daniel shares his remarkable journey, highlighting Renovo's impressive 10x expansion of its sales team and 40x business growth over the past six years. Discover the pivotal role of mindset and the "adult-adult" approach in building enduring relationships within the commoditized lending industry. Daniel emphasizes the significance of "slowing down to speed up," a principle that has shaped Renovo's success in cultivating genuine business partnerships and mutual growth. We also discuss the importance of building long-term client relationships by prioritizing a local, client-centric approach in the real estate lending business. Learn how understanding clients' business journeys and challenges leads to stronger partnerships and a referral-based business model. Additionally, we explore effective hiring and onboarding strategies that have distinguished Renovo, especially during the challenges of COVID-19. By setting clear expectations and rigorous training, Renovo has cultivated a team of top producers who thrive in a supportive environment. Daniel's experiences and insights provide a comprehensive look at fostering genuine connections and a structured approach to success. (00:02) Success Triangle (10:32) Building Long-Term Client Relationships (18:18) Effective Hiring and Onboarding Processes (00:02) Success Triangle This chapter features a conversation with Daniel Rosen from Renovo Financial, highlighting his journey and the impressive growth of his company. We explore the significance of the success triangle—attitudes, behaviors, and techniques—in scaling businesses, as evidenced by Renovo's remarkable 10x sales team expansion and 40x business growth over six years. Daniel emphasizes the importance of mindset, particularly the "adult-adult" approach in building lasting relationships in a commoditized lending industry. We reflect on a pivotal moment when Daniel first reached out for sales training, underscoring the value of slowing down to speed up, and how this principle has shaped Renovo's relationship-driven success. Through this lens, Daniel's insights reveal how fostering genuine business partnerships contributes to mutual growth and success. (10:32) Building Long-Term Client Relationships This chapter focuses on the importance of building genuine relationships in the real estate lending business by prioritizing a local, client-centric approach. We explore how understanding a client's overall business journey and challenges leads to stronger, long-term partnerships rather than just focusing on individual deals. Emphasizing the mantra "slow down to speed up," we highlight the benefits of investing time to understand clients' needs and making informed decisions on fit and alignment. By prioritizing relationship-building, we aim to transform sales strategies into a referral-based business model that drives sustained growth. Through personal experiences and insights, we underscore how this approach has led to significant increases in loan processing volumes, illustrating the power of a well-cultivated, client-focused sales process. (18:18) Effective Hiring and Onboarding Processes This chapter explores the innovative hiring and onboarding strategies that have set a company apart, particularly during the challenges of COVID-19 when operations expanded nationwide. By emphasizing the importance of having a clear process and identifying the right candidate profile, I highlight how this approach mirrors effective prospecting techniques. The conversation underscores the necessity of transparency in setting expectations, where the upfront communication of challenges and rigorous training requirements becomes crucial. This method not only avoids overselling the job but also prepares candidates for the demanding nature of the role. We also discuss the implementation of techniques like upfront contracts and role-playing, alongside regular accountability meetings, which ensure new hires are equipped and ready to succeed. The outcome of this meticulous process is a team of top producers who thrive under the company's supportive and structured environment.

Oct 6, 2025 • 23min
How To Succeed On and Off the Field
Podcast Summary Former NFL wide receiver Bernard Berrien joins us for an enlightening conversation on cultivating a success mindset that transcends the boundaries of sports and business. Bernard shares his inspiring journey from playing college football at Fresno State to making it to the NFL, underscoring the power of confidence and resilience in overcoming challenges. Listeners will gain an understanding of how a positive attitude not only prepares individuals to excel but also elevates those around them. Bernard also opens up about his pre-game routine, highlighting the role of music and consistent habits in achieving a winning mindset. We unpack the traits that athletes bring to the corporate world, discussing the parallels between sports and business. Discover how discipline, commitment, and competitiveness form a solid foundation for success in sales and leadership roles. Bernard emphasizes that behind-the-scenes effort and preparation are key, offering advice to young athletes on the importance of hard work and physical health. The conversation reveals how dedication in sports seamlessly translates to business success, proving that consistent effort and self-care outweigh raw talent. Our exploration doesn't stop at the professional realm. Bernard shares his admiration for Michael Jordan, highlighting the basketball legend's impactful transition from sports to business. We also delve into Bernard's personal interests, such as drumming, dancing, and gardening, which offer him stress relief and personal growth. This episode captures the essence of surrounding oneself with smarter individuals and valuing time, providing entrepreneurs with insights to balance success and personal life. Tune in for Bernard's invaluable perspectives on achieving your goals, and connect with him on Instagram for ongoing inspiration. (00:02) Success Mindset for Athletes and Entrepreneurs (10:09) Athlete Traits for Corporate Success (17:49) Personal and Professional Growth Strategies (22:35) Winning Mindset With Bernard Barian (00:02) Success Mindset for Athletes and Entrepreneurs This chapter features an engaging conversation with Bernard Berrien, a former NFL wide receiver and entrepreneur, as we explore the attitudes, behaviors, and techniques necessary to succeed both on and off the field. Bernard shares his journey from college football at Fresno State to playing in the NFL, emphasizing the critical role of mindset and attitude in achieving and maintaining success. With only a small percentage of college athletes making it to the professional level, Bernard highlights the importance of confidence and resilience in overcoming challenges. He describes how a positive attitude not only prepares individuals to win but also inspires those around them to perform at their best. Bernard also reveals his pre-game routine, including the significance of music and maintaining consistent habits to get into the right mindset. This conversation offers valuable insights into the parallels between athletic and business success, focusing on how the right mental approach can drive achievement. (10:09) Athlete Traits for Corporate Success This chapter explores the parallels between the corporate world and team sports, emphasizing the transferable traits of discipline, commitment, and competitiveness that make athletes successful in business. I highlight how the dedication and work ethic required in sports translate into a strong foundation for sales and leadership roles. We discuss the importance of what you do behind the scenes, such as practicing and preparing when no one is watching, to achieve success on game day, which in business translates to consistently following up with clients and sticking to a strategy. I underscore the importance of habits, discipline, and preparation over raw talent, suggesting that success is built on consistent effort and self-care. Additionally, advice is offered to young athletes aspiring to elevate their careers, emphasizing the significance of hard work and maintaining physical health as integral components of achieving one's goals. (17:49) Personal and Professional Growth Strategies This chapter explores the admiration for Michael Jordan, both as an athlete and a business figure, emphasizing his ability to say no and make smart decisions. I reflect on personal growth and resilience, drawing inspiration from Jordan's successful transition from sports to business. We uncover lesser-known facts about Bernard Barron, including his past as a drummer and drum major, and his love for dancing and gardening as stress relief. We discuss the importance of surrounding oneself with smarter individuals for personal and professional development, along with the value of reading and watching documentaries. Finally, we touch on the significance of time, sharing the perspective that while money can always be earned, time once lost is irreplaceable, a sentiment that resonates deeply with entrepreneurs striving for a balance between success and personal life. (22:35) Winning Mindset With Bernard Barian This chapter features an engaging conversation with Bernard Barian, who shares his insights on cultivating a winner's mindset. We explore Bernard's strategies for success and how his mental approach can inspire others to achieve their goals. The episode provides listeners with valuable perspectives on personal and professional growth, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a positive and determined outlook. I express my gratitude to Bernard for his contributions and encourage listeners to connect with him on Instagram for further inspiration. Thank you for tuning in, and I look forward to bringing more insightful discussions on the How to Succeed podcast.

Sep 8, 2025 • 53min
How To Succeed at Transforming Your Life
Podcast Summary Carlos Garrido took a leap of faith in 2009, leaving behind the bustling world of finance in England to embrace the vibrant opportunities of Miami, Florida. His journey wasn't just about navigating new landscapes but also about mastering a language and culture that were foreign at first. Encouraged by his brother, Carlos transitioned into entrepreneurship, carrying with him the Sandler principles that had already begun to shape his perspective on personal and professional success. His story illuminates the profound impact of perseverance and connection, emphasizing how these tools helped him overcome the daunting challenges of starting anew. The definition of success is ever-evolving, and today more than ever, it transcends mere financial gain. We explore how iconic figures like Jeff Bezos and Mark Zuckerberg reflect a modern ethos that prioritizes health and time freedom over ostentatious wealth. Carlos shares his enlightening experience with the 75 Hard program, a grueling yet transformative regimen that reshaped his approach to mental toughness and personal growth. This personal narrative highlights the shift from external validation to intrinsic self-worth, encouraging listeners to question deeply ingrained beliefs about success and identity. The episode rounds out with a discussion on achieving a balanced life, where both health and business aspirations find harmony. Through holistic practices such as Stoicism, journaling, and meditation, Carlos has redefined his views on masculinity and success. The integration of new fitness techniques and dietary changes, shared with family members, serves as a testament to the power of personal transformation. Amidst life's inevitable setbacks, the commitment to ongoing development remains unwavering, painting a picture of a life where professional achievements and personal well-being coexist, driving toward a future of holistic success and fulfillment. (00:02) Journey to Success Through Sandler Principles (16:43) The Mental Toughness of Success (21:06) Transformation Through Fitness and Business (37:08) Balancing Health and Business Success (00:02) Journey to Success Through Sandler Principles This chapter features a conversation with Carlos Garrido, a Sandler trainer from Miami, Florida, who shares his personal and professional journey. Originally from Manchester, England, Carlos discusses his multicultural background with a Greek mother and a Spanish father, and his initial career in finance and investment banking. He explains how he relocated to Miami in 2009 to lead business development and M&A activities in Latin America, a move that was prompted by the global emphasis on BRICS strategies. Despite not speaking Spanish initially, Carlos embraced the challenge and fell in love with Miami and the United States, eventually becoming an American citizen. He recounts how he transitioned from finance to starting his own business in Miami, with encouragement from his brother who was a Sandler client. The chapter highlights the importance of perseverance and connection in overcoming the initial challenges of entrepreneurship. (16:43) The Mental Toughness of Success This chapter explores the evolving notion of what signifies success and wealth, contrasting the 1980s' flashy displays with today's emphasis on physical health and time freedom. We examine how modern entrepreneurs prioritize fitness, highlighting billionaires like Jeff Bezos and Mark Zuckerberg as examples of this shift. The conversation then transitions into a personal narrative about discovering and undertaking the 75 Hard program, a regimen aimed at mental toughness that also results in improved health. Initially resistant, I recount how repeated encounters with the program's concept, through friends and YouTube videos featuring its creator Andy Frazella, led to a transformative mindset shift. This experience underscores the importance of discipline, time management, and mental resilience in achieving personal growth. (21:06) Transformation Through Fitness and Business This chapter examines the journey of committing to a demanding 75-day program that requires daily dedication and challenges one's personal beliefs and identity. We explore how embarking on this journey required reevaluating what success means, questioning ingrained beliefs about roles as a man, father, and husband, and prioritizing personal health over economic achievements. Through self-reflection, the importance of self-concept in achieving success, especially in business and sales, is highlighted, emphasizing that one's self-worth is not solely tied to financial accomplishments. The transformative process includes overcoming cynicism and shifting the focus from external validation to an intrinsic sense of self-worth and personal value. This narrative illustrates the profound impact of challenging and reshaping one's identity and beliefs on personal growth and fulfillment. (37:08) Balancing Health and Business Success This chapter explores the journey of personal and professional growth, focusing on the transformation in mindset and lifestyle. We discuss the importance of integrating holistic practices like journaling, meditation, and philosophical exploration, particularly with Stoicism, to reshape perspectives on success and masculinity. Emphasizing the value of physical health, the narrative highlights adopting new fitness techniques and dietary habits, supported by resources like Men's Health and YouTube tutorials. We reflect on the continuous ambition for business growth, noting the significant progress made and future aspirations. The journey is one of balancing professional achievements with personal health and family life, sharing the challenges and rewards of weight loss and strength training, particularly in partnership with family members. Despite setbacks, the commitment to ongoing development remains steadfast, aiming for holistic success and well-being.

Mar 31, 2025 • 40min
How To Succeed at Shifting Your Sales Performance Into High Gear
Jennifer Cobb, a pioneering NASCAR driver and entrepreneur at Fastener Supply Company, shares her remarkable journey from the racetrack to business. She discusses her record-breaking moments in racing, including a triumph at Daytona, and tackles the challenges of a male-dominated field. Jennifer emphasizes the importance of mindset in sales, drawing parallels between racing and entrepreneurship. Her personal stories highlight resilience, mentorship, and the support that fuels success in both high-speed environments and business endeavours.

Mar 24, 2025 • 44min
How To Succeed at the Cure For Stupidity: Understanding the Brain Science of Change, Communication, and Human Behavior
Podcast Summary Eric Bailey, president of Bailey Strategic Innovation Group and bestselling author of "The Cure for Stupidity," joins us to unravel the complexities of human behavior through the lens of brain science. Inspired by a spontaneous New Year's resolution, Eric's journey from various industries to authoring a transformative book is nothing short of fascinating. He brings to light how our perception can mislead us and the illusion of certainty that our brains create, urging us to engage in self-reflection and adapt our communication for better understanding. Explore the captivating concept of schadenfreude and its impact on both personal and professional life. We shed light on how this feeling of pleasure in others' misfortunes shows up in sports and workplace rivalries, and how it can affect team cohesion and organizational culture. The importance of acknowledging non-verbal cues, or emotional "leakage," is emphasized to ensure teamwork and cultural integrity aren't compromised. Eric and I delve into the role culture plays in achieving collective success, stressing that it's not just about top-down mandates but about the attitudes and behaviors of everyone involved. Effective communication and leadership are the pillars of a successful workplace culture, and this episode dives deep into these essentials. From the pitfalls of uncommunicated expectations to the virtues of "radical curiosity," we highlight how leaders can transform their interactions from transactional to relational, fostering genuine connections with their teams. Emphasizing the importance of managing individuals and embracing generational shifts in communication, we advocate for environments where genuine emotional experiences are valued, ultimately enhancing leadership effectiveness and employee retention. (00:01) The Cure for Stupidity (12:51) The Impact of Culture on Success (17:06) Building and Nurturing Workplace Culture (29:43) Effective Leadership Communication and Training (36:13) Mastering Curiosity and Communication in Leadership (00:01) The Cure for Stupidity This chapter features an engaging conversation with Eric Bailey, the president of Bailey Strategic Innovation Group and author of the bestselling book, "The Cure for Stupidity: Using Brain Science to Explain Irrational Behavior." We explore Eric's journey from various industries to becoming an author, sparked by a New Year's resolution during a family road trip. Eric shares insights from his book, which is grounded in brain science principles, covering topics such as our tendency to believe our perception of the world is reality and the illusion of certainty. These concepts highlight how our brains can lead us to mistakenly assume we are correct in our interactions with others. Eric emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and adapting our communication to improve understanding, as exemplified by host David's personal anecdotes about learning to distinguish between opinion and fact in his communication. (12:51) The Impact of Culture on Success This chapter explores the intriguing concept of schadenfreude, the pleasure derived from someone else's misfortune, and its implications in both personal and professional settings. We discuss how this phenomenon can manifest in sports rivalries and workplace dynamics, particularly in competitive situations like vying for promotions. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing these feelings and shifting focus towards collective success, emphasizing the role of team cohesion and cultural alignment in organizations. We consider the challenges faced in team environments, such as sales, where internal dissonance can affect client perceptions and outcomes. The chapter also touches on the non-verbal cues, or "leakage," that reveal our true emotions, potentially undermining teamwork and organizational culture. Finally, I reflect on the pivotal role of culture in fostering successful collaborations and achieving shared goals within companies. (17:06) Building and Nurturing Workplace Culture This chapter focuses on the essence and influence of culture within organizations, emphasizing that culture is defined by the attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors of its people, not merely dictated from the top. I explore how nurturing desired cultural traits, like communication and accountability, requires active participation and feedback from everyone involved. Addressing generational perceptions, I highlight how every generation tends to label the next as self-absorbed, referencing historical views dating back to Aristotle. We also discuss the impact of technology on communication, particularly among younger generations, noting how reliance on digital expressions like emojis and abbreviations may lead to a diminished experience of genuine emotions. This shift could result in amplified emotional responses when real emotions are encountered. (29:43) Effective Leadership Communication and Training This chapter explores the critical importance of clear communication and setting expectations in leadership. We share a real-life example of a leader who struggled with an employee's tardiness due to vague instructions about start times. Highlighting the pitfalls of assuming common sense in workplace norms, we discuss how misunderstandings can arise from uncommunicated expectations, leading to potential conflicts. We emphasize the necessity for leaders to have uncomfortable conversations to ensure clarity and alignment within teams. Furthermore, we touch upon the shortcomings of performance reviews when expectations aren't clearly set and revisited. Lastly, we underline the need for proper training for leaders to equip them with the skills necessary to effectively manage and communicate with their teams. (36:13) Mastering Curiosity and Communication in Leadership This chapter explores the critical leadership skills necessary for success, focusing on the importance of teaching leaders how to communicate effectively, coach, lead, and handle difficult conversations. We emphasize the concept of "radical curiosity," which encourages leaders to adopt a mindset of learning from everyone they meet, regardless of their hierarchical position. By fostering curiosity and asking questions, leaders can create stronger connections with their teams and transform interactions from transactional to relational. The conversation highlights the significance of managing individuals rather than just teams and taking personal responsibility for employee retention. The chapter concludes with a call to catch ourselves when pretending to be know-it-alls, advocating for a shift toward learning and understanding to enhance leadership effectiveness.

Mar 17, 2025 • 45min
How To Succeed at Being Unstoppable: Unlocking Your Full Potential in a Changing World
Renowned speaker and author Krish Dhanam shares his compelling journey from a Zig Ziglar seminar to transforming his career in sales. Experience firsthand the enlightening stories and personal anecdotes that reveal how stepping out of comfort zones can shape the mindset of the top 3% who thrive in the effective zone. Krish's insights into mindset shifts and embracing change illuminate the path to achieving sales success and overcoming any obstacles in your way. Uncover the secrets to effective leadership and consistent success as we discuss the importance of consistent daily actions over sporadic efforts. Drawing inspiration from the Sandler sales approach and Zig Ziglar's teachings, we explore how establishing a structured plan and growth mindset within teams can lead to sustained achievements. Learn how to prioritize what you can influence and use motivation, consistency, and strategic planning to reach and surpass your goals. Discover the power of product conviction and peak performance as Krish highlights the impact of belief and confidence in sales and leadership. With personal anecdotes and wisdom from mentors, we discuss how instilling conviction in your team about the transformative potential of your products can drive excellence and peak performance. This episode is packed with actionable strategies and insights that will challenge you to recognize that true success starts from within. (00:03) Success Mindset and Overcoming Obstacles (14:17) Daily Behavioral Plan for Sales Success (26:12) Product Conviction and Peak Performance (31:49) Peak Performance and Sales Habits (43:33) Inner Conviction for Sales Success (00:03) Success Mindset and Overcoming Obstacles This chapter features an engaging conversation with Krish Dhanam, a seasoned speaker and author with a remarkable journey in the sales industry. We explore Krish's transformative experience attending a Zig Ziglar seminar, which marked a pivotal turning point in his career. Krish shares insights on the importance of stepping out of comfort zones, emphasizing the distinction between comfort zone thinkers and effective zone thinkers. He highlights the mindset of the 3% who operate in the effective zone, characterized by their proactive and innovative approach to challenges. We also discuss how individuals can identify where they stand and strategies to transition into becoming effective zone thinkers, focusing on mindset shifts and embracing change. (14:17) Daily Behavioral Plan for Sales Success This chapter focuses on the mindset required for effective leadership and consistent success. We explore how leaders can prioritize negotiable factors they can influence rather than getting bogged down by uncontrollable elements. The importance of consistent daily actions over sporadic efforts is emphasized, drawing on the Sandler sales approach and the insights of renowned motivational speaker Zig Ziglar. By implementing a structured, methodical plan and fostering a growth mindset within teams, leaders can achieve sustained success without relying on last-minute, frenzied activity. Additionally, we highlight the importance of establishing clear foundations, visions, and benchmarks to guide the growth process and ensure accountability. Through stories and personal experiences, the discussion underscores the power of motivation, consistency, and strategic planning in reaching and exceeding goals. (26:12) Product Conviction and Peak Performance This chapter explores the fluidity of the PEST model in management, emphasizing the importance of belief and conviction in leadership and sales. I discuss how having absolute confidence in a product or service can be as comforting as a doctor assuring a patient with experience and certainty. The conversation highlights how this conviction impacts clients and the significance of preparation and effort, regardless of past successes. Reflecting on personal experiences and teachings from mentors like Mr. Ziegler, I stress the importance of honoring one's profession and consistently striving for excellence. Furthermore, we examine the idea that the true essence of replicating success within a company lies in instilling conviction in the team about the transformative power of their products or services. By nurturing this belief, organizations can achieve peak performance and significantly enhance their impact. (31:49) Peak Performance and Sales Habits This chapter explores the nuances of sales management and personal productivity, emphasizing the importance of recognizing one's strengths and finding complementary partners in the workplace. We discuss the concept of being a creator who generates ideas and the necessity of having a trusted executor to bring those ideas to fruition. The conversation highlights the importance of viewing oneself as part of an assembly line where everyone's output serves as someone else's input, promoting efficiency and teamwork. We also reflect on the difference between individuals who work for a paycheck versus those driven by a mission to make a difference. A personal anecdote underscores the lasting impact of genuine passion and excellence, while Stanley Marcus's wisdom about sales is quoted to reinforce the value of client relationships. The chapter concludes with advice on maintaining peak performance through non-negotiable daily disciplines and the importance of being a time miser to eliminate frivolity and focus on meaningful interactions and tasks. (43:33) Inner Conviction for Sales Success This chapter challenges us to rethink our approach to success by focusing on the mindset and conviction we bring to our daily lives. Instead of searching for external tactics, Krish Dhanam encourages us to recognize that true success lies within us and is influenced by our thoughts and actions. It's a reminder that while tactical strategies are important, the foundation of success is built on our internal mindset and how we engage with our goals. As we reflect on this, the chapter leaves us with the powerful insight that success is as much about our internal perspective as it is about external actions. Until next time, keep this mindset in focus for good selling.


